Is there such a thing as, "JUST CHILLIN'"?, Between a single guy and girl? Options

[ToYCeLi8]

I ask b/c Im BORED! lol.. No, I still believe that a GUY and GIRL CANT be"BEST FRIENDS" or JUST FRIENDS if both are single and both straight. A call after 10pm is considered a BOOTY CALL. All those types of scenarios. I think there is always that sexual tension there?

Im also bringing this up b/c last night I went 2 "just chill" with a classmate at the Santa Monica Promenade for a few hours. But nothing even close to sexual happened. NO holding hands, NO Kissing, NO hugs, Not being when we said good-bye, shoot, Not even a good-bye hand shake,haha. Only time I kinda hugged her was when a bum wouldnt leave us alone and I grabbed her closer to me to walk away.

So now, am I being a hypocrite? Im not gunna lie, she is DAMN GOOD LOOKIN! But I am TRYING 2 "just be friends" with her. Oh, and we're are goin to the movies in a bit with her 2 kids, then to see the Lion King Musical on the 28th with her daughter. So what to do? What do you guys think about this whole thing?

David

[ToYCeLi8]

WOOHOO! Blockbuster night and a sleepover last night... lol. NOOO nothing happened. She is sick, so i took care of her until about 5am. Then she finally fell asleep until just after 7am, when her son came in the room 2 wake us up.

So how am I doin? She asked me to go over to her place tonight to meet some of her family. WHat do u
guys/girls think?

Adios,
David

[Jeremy1210]

WOOHOO! Blockbuster night and a sleepover last night... lol. NOOO nothing happened. She is sick, so i took care of her until about 5am. Then she finally fell asleep until just after 7am, when her son came in the room 2 wake us up.

So how am I doin? She asked me to go over to her place tonight to meet some of her family. WHat do u
guys/girls think?

Adios,
David

Meeting family at the holidays?? How many dates have you been on? hmm... Wonder what shes telling her family about the 2 of you.. I met this girls family at christmas a few years back. Thought we were friends, but her family thought otherwise IE boyfriend and serious.

If you're happy, more power to you. Just make sure you know what she wants and she knows what you want

[ToYCeLi8]

WOOHOO! Blockbuster night and a sleepover last night... lol. NOOO nothing happened. She is sick, so i took care of her until about 5am. Then she finally fell asleep until just after 7am, when her son came in the room 2 wake us up.

So how am I doin? She asked me to go over to her place tonight to meet some of her family. WHat do u
guys/girls think?

Adios,
David

Meeting family at the holidays?? How many dates have you been on? hmm... Wonder what shes telling her family about the 2 of you.. I met this girls family at christmas a few years back. Thought we were friends, but her family thought otherwise IE boyfriend and serious.

If you're happy, more power to you. Just make sure you know what she wants and she knows what you want

YEa, I gotcha. No worries tho, I was introduced as a FRIEND and the family knows me as a friend. She isnt crazy (that I know of...) So she hasnt switched it up on me like that. Her having children makes a difference that shes not gunna play games, neither will I.

ANYWAY! Things have been FUN! j/k, Theyve been great, We r spending time 2gether and are most likey move on to getting engaged by Xmas, and married in Vegas for New YEars... NOOOT! lol, Im kiddin ppl. WOW..That would be INSANE on my part... We are talking a lot and have laid all the cards on the table so we BOTH know whats goin on. Ill keep those that are interested posted.

Adios,
David