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I've been in a relationship for a month now and it was going great until a week ago. Therefore I'd like to have everyone's opinion on this. Just put yourself in my position and hers and tell me what you think. I'll give you the facts and try to not leave out anything or to be biast because I want your honest opinion. I will show her the percentage of results to prove that my actions over this is justified because she claims I'm acting like an asshole. We are an hours drive away from eachother and I can't see her everyday because of her schedule with school and her mom because of her age (she is 18 in less than a month) and I'm 23.
Her Facts: `Her ex-boyfriend still calls her `He doesn't know about me `When he calls, it is back to back until she answers `He wants to get back together with her because he thinks she is single. `She had a girl tell her that she was gonna beat her up today so she calls her ex wanting advice on how to handle the situation because he has been there before. `He is violent towards other guys and doesn't want us to fight over her and claims it isn't my choice to tell him but hers and only hers. `He has shown up to her house in hopes to get back together. They sat for like an hour with her family there. `He is still number 2 on her myspace page where as I'm number 1. (I don't care about this, just stating). My facts: `I have 4 classes with a female friend `My girlfriend doesn't like her (doesnt know her either) `Her and I study together sometimes (very rarely) at the college campus' library, but only for a test, which is like everyother week if that, but not every test. `We don't hang out or anything. (Friend and I) `If I go to the library at all, she assumes I'm meeting up with the friend `The friend and I only talk on the phone when she has missed a day of class and needs information on a test. So far results have been from people I've asked are: 3 dump her (2 girls and 1 guy) Note: I made it loud and clear I didn't like him calling her and him not knowing about me long before this post, but now I'm just sick of it. |
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![]() Enthusiast ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Joined Jun 13, '05 From Poughkeepsie, NY Currently Offline Reputation: 2 (100%) ![]() |
IMo and personal expierience, your the rebound guy, which sucks, but its only been a month, and u hopfully arent too involved yet. I say cut her loose.
in the end your the only one that can make this decision no matter what anyone else here says. its only gonna get harder to make as time goes on. I'm currently having this problem (sorta) mine as a few extra twists...but basicly after talking to some people shes just being a whore, so im kicking her ass to the curb. After my last "relationship" (if you could call it that, most people here know the story) ive adopted this mentality: "chicks arent worth ****. when the right one comes along, there wont be ANY grey areas." Good luck bro, not an easy decision to make, but the soooner u deal with it, the easier it will be in the long run, take it from someone whos put stuff off entirely to long, and had to deal with it for INCREADIBLY to long. This post has been edited by devilsden97: Dec 13, 2006 - 12:35 PM -------------------- ![]() Kawi Love |
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