Relationship Problems, I Honestly Dont Know What To Do Options

[6th_celi_vert]

First off, you have to understand this girl:

She was raised Very strictly. Her father has taught her to be tough, NEVER show emotions, and to always stand her ground. With that being said, she is also VERY stubborn. I never know what she's thinking, and im pretty good at reading people. Now that you understand the girl, try to understand the situation.

We have been dating two years. We have always got along.

About a month ago, her father saw her at a restaurant with another guy. He kicked her out, and told me the situation. I broke up with her, but she said that it was just a friend from work, and that there was gonna be a bunch of other people she worked with there.

The Facts: They were in seperate cars. She wasnt all over him, he wasnt all over her. (her dad would have told me)


I took her back. fast forward to last week. Her phone rings, were at my house. She goes to the bathroom, and hear them talking. Its the same guy she got caught with at the restaurant. Theyre arguing, i tell her to leave.


She keeps calling me, telling me she's sorry, that she loves me, and she admits to going out with him and calling him and him calling her. She promises and swears that she never kissed him, or anything more than that. She also says that He isnt worth losing me, and that she doesnt love him, she loves me.

Tonight...I took her back. I didnt want to, but i did. I love her so much, i cant help it. Did i do the right thing? should I have given her a second chance??

BTW...she cried. Ive not seen her cry in the two years weve been dating.



PS: She DOES have to work with this guy.


Has anybody here ever been cheated on by the person you wanted to spend your life with?

It hurts, i dont know how to deal with it, im confused...im losing my mind. Seriously.

[6th_celi_vert]

Thanks for the feedback guys. Like I said, we are going back out. She sent me a single text message this morning that said "just wanted to say that i love you".


And as far as the friend in the workplace goes. She told me several times that they were just friends...i just...wouldnt listen. I convinced myself that she was cheating on me and then harassed her about it so much that I almost wonder if she admitted to cheating on me just to get me to shut the hell up.

But...by the same token...she COULD HAVE been cheating on me. Ill never know. I just know that if she messes up this time, im gone for good. I love her to death, but i honestly dont deserve to be treated like this.

With the mixture of 50+ hours a week working, three nights a week going to school, taking jiu-jitsu classes and trying work out everyday, I cant handle anymore stress from this relationship.