Relationship Problems, I Honestly Dont Know What To Do Options

[6th_celi_vert]

First off, you have to understand this girl:

She was raised Very strictly. Her father has taught her to be tough, NEVER show emotions, and to always stand her ground. With that being said, she is also VERY stubborn. I never know what she's thinking, and im pretty good at reading people. Now that you understand the girl, try to understand the situation.

We have been dating two years. We have always got along.

About a month ago, her father saw her at a restaurant with another guy. He kicked her out, and told me the situation. I broke up with her, but she said that it was just a friend from work, and that there was gonna be a bunch of other people she worked with there.

The Facts: They were in seperate cars. She wasnt all over him, he wasnt all over her. (her dad would have told me)


I took her back. fast forward to last week. Her phone rings, were at my house. She goes to the bathroom, and hear them talking. Its the same guy she got caught with at the restaurant. Theyre arguing, i tell her to leave.


She keeps calling me, telling me she's sorry, that she loves me, and she admits to going out with him and calling him and him calling her. She promises and swears that she never kissed him, or anything more than that. She also says that He isnt worth losing me, and that she doesnt love him, she loves me.

Tonight...I took her back. I didnt want to, but i did. I love her so much, i cant help it. Did i do the right thing? should I have given her a second chance??

BTW...she cried. Ive not seen her cry in the two years weve been dating.



PS: She DOES have to work with this guy.


Has anybody here ever been cheated on by the person you wanted to spend your life with?

It hurts, i dont know how to deal with it, im confused...im losing my mind. Seriously.

[raz128]

No-one shoud be teling you wether you should walk away or stay in there. We can all sit typing our advice and your friends might sit there for hours telling you what to do, but at the end of the day, you'll have already made your mind up.
I suspect there's not one thing you haven't heard/read that's not gone through your mind a million times over already.

I'm going through similar probs atm, and for me, it's a matter of wether I feel it's worth giving it that one last attempt at making it work. Should the worst happen and I end up landing flat on my face, I know that I gave it a go and after hearing advice from friends, I know that i'll definetley be able to pick myself up and move on no matter how hard it might be. (btw, i've been with my girl for 2+1/2 years so not too dissimilar to you, mate).

Anyways, best of luck whatever happens.