Opinion on my relationship Please!, All opinions wanted please. Options

[JonCars17]

I've been in a relationship for a month now and it was going great until a week ago. Therefore I'd like to have everyone's opinion on this. Just put yourself in my position and hers and tell me what you think. I'll give you the facts and try to not leave out anything or to be biast because I want your honest opinion. I will show her the percentage of results to prove that my actions over this is justified because she claims I'm acting like an asshole. We are an hours drive away from eachother and I can't see her everyday because of her schedule with school and her mom because of her age (she is 18 in less than a month) and I'm 23.

Her Facts:
`Her ex-boyfriend still calls her
`He doesn't know about me
`When he calls, it is back to back until she answers
`He wants to get back together with her because he thinks she is single.
`She had a girl tell her that she was gonna beat her up today so she calls her ex wanting advice on how to handle the situation because he has been there before.
`He is violent towards other guys and doesn't want us to fight over her and claims it isn't my choice to tell him but hers and only hers.
`He has shown up to her house in hopes to get back together. They sat for like an hour with her family there.
`He is still number 2 on her myspace page where as I'm number 1. (I don't care about this, just stating).


My facts:
`I have 4 classes with a female friend
`My girlfriend doesn't like her (doesnt know her either)
`Her and I study together sometimes (very rarely) at the college campus' library, but only for a test, which is like everyother week if that, but not every test.
`We don't hang out or anything. (Friend and I)
`If I go to the library at all, she assumes I'm meeting up with the friend
`The friend and I only talk on the phone when she has missed a day of class and needs information on a test.

So far results have been from people I've asked are:
3 dump her (2 girls and 1 guy)

Note:
I made it loud and clear I didn't like him calling her and him not knowing about me long before this post, but now I'm just sick of it.

[FreddyTheOthaMea...]

I voted your both wrong.
for starters at 17 (god man.. lol) unless shes had a rough upbringing or something to maybe make her more mature past her age obviously childish incidents like this will happen. she should of right off the bat told the ex to bugger off due to the fact that shes moved on and is in another relationship. she shouldnt be getting bent out of shape over the fact that you have female friends (more childish nonesense as any mature adult wouldnt care due to the fact that there would be a little thing called TRUST) Ive been married for 5 years been together with my wife for 6 years and been best friends for 7, never have i once had any trust issues where i freaked out about her having any guy friends. heck ive been really friends with most of em lol. to make a long story short, if your having trust issues only a month into the relationship theres obviously something just wrong to start off with. and her needing your advice if to keep the ex around as a friend is pretty wishy-washy as it is. i agree with the previous post, go for the girl in your class.. at least shes looking ahead... ;] (that and i dunno about anyone else but i got a thing for chicks with glasses) awwwwright