Opinion on my relationship Please!, All opinions wanted please. Options

[JonCars17]

I've been in a relationship for a month now and it was going great until a week ago. Therefore I'd like to have everyone's opinion on this. Just put yourself in my position and hers and tell me what you think. I'll give you the facts and try to not leave out anything or to be biast because I want your honest opinion. I will show her the percentage of results to prove that my actions over this is justified because she claims I'm acting like an asshole. We are an hours drive away from eachother and I can't see her everyday because of her schedule with school and her mom because of her age (she is 18 in less than a month) and I'm 23.

Her Facts:
`Her ex-boyfriend still calls her
`He doesn't know about me
`When he calls, it is back to back until she answers
`He wants to get back together with her because he thinks she is single.
`She had a girl tell her that she was gonna beat her up today so she calls her ex wanting advice on how to handle the situation because he has been there before.
`He is violent towards other guys and doesn't want us to fight over her and claims it isn't my choice to tell him but hers and only hers.
`He has shown up to her house in hopes to get back together. They sat for like an hour with her family there.
`He is still number 2 on her myspace page where as I'm number 1. (I don't care about this, just stating).


My facts:
`I have 4 classes with a female friend
`My girlfriend doesn't like her (doesnt know her either)
`Her and I study together sometimes (very rarely) at the college campus' library, but only for a test, which is like everyother week if that, but not every test.
`We don't hang out or anything. (Friend and I)
`If I go to the library at all, she assumes I'm meeting up with the friend
`The friend and I only talk on the phone when she has missed a day of class and needs information on a test.

So far results have been from people I've asked are:
3 dump her (2 girls and 1 guy)

Note:
I made it loud and clear I didn't like him calling her and him not knowing about me long before this post, but now I'm just sick of it.

[Rjb23]

First off what no one in this thread has asked yet are you 2 in a commited relationship? Have you said that you are not going to see anyone but each other?

If so then grow a pair and give her an altamatum. Tell her either she tells her ex about you or she get to the curb. Its just plain disrespectful to you that she is still talking to her ex.

As for you friend she has no right to tell you that you can not talk to her, you have been going out for a month, not 6 not 12.

Also if you are already having these problems, then don't get attached, its not going to last. Just "get some" and have fun for now.

[Shocker]

As for you friend she has no right to tell you that you can not talk to her, you have been going out for a month, not 6 not 12.

just to let you know ive been going out with my girlfriend for 21 months we are both 18 go to different schools and what not and she never tells me who i can and who i cant talk to.Nor do i tell her not to talk to ill give her a hard time somthimes if i find ou shes been talking to a dickhead but i dont tell her she has to stop,its her decision,and from her decisions i can tell what she thinks about me and our relationship.And as you can tell its been going very well. Her best freind is a guy "ME",but that aside the person she hangs out with most other than me is a guy.Its cool and a lot of my freinds are girls she gives me a hard time but never anything out of meaness.
And do what i did with my Girlfreinds ex..Well i did it will a lot of her ex's since we go to differnt schools and all and i had to make my presence known.. I would go up and introduce myself to them and tell them who i am.And i think you should do it too if you think that her ex boyfreind is the cause of these problems you are having. At least he would know whats up with you and her.