Significant others living with opposite sex Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

My friend asked me a question today and thought id ask you guys waht you thought cuz i have my feelings but sometimes mine differ completely from tohers.


What would you guys think if ur boyfriend or girlfriend said "hey imma go move in with my best guy or girl friend"? theyve had a flirty relationship but both sides say nothing has ever happened out of all the years youve known them. Would you be ok with it?

I dont think i would be. Drunken nights happen. Im not very trustworthy of people so id be like uhh why cant u move in with the same sex. but then theres a problem when u get some dudes in an apartment cuz then they bring over chicks and party.

So anyways she said shes not sure how she feels about it. I told her to just see how it goes for a few months and if you feel that somethings not right hten get the F out. :-)

[FreddyTheOthaMea...]

Uh for me, if theres not enough trust for your loved one to be around the opposite sex without them doin it, then there probably isnt much of a relationship to begin with... my 2 cents

[Rayme]

Uh for me, if theres not enough trust for your loved one to be around the opposite sex without them doin it, then there probably isnt much of a relationship to begin with... my 2 cents

Its not about trust, its just a very un-easy situation. I totally trust my GF and she asked me the same about it, to move with a co-worker, as it would be better for her financial situation. But I totally didn't like the idea at all, but would had agreed if it was temporary. Guys are guys, period. I wouldn't like everyone to see my GF runnin' around half naked at bed time, and you can just imagine the other bad stuff.

It’s more about avoidance, and in some level jealousy (Why is my GF moving in with that guy and not ME?), Its a feeling you will get even if its impossible for her to move with you.