Significant others living with opposite sex Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

My friend asked me a question today and thought id ask you guys waht you thought cuz i have my feelings but sometimes mine differ completely from tohers.


What would you guys think if ur boyfriend or girlfriend said "hey imma go move in with my best guy or girl friend"? theyve had a flirty relationship but both sides say nothing has ever happened out of all the years youve known them. Would you be ok with it?

I dont think i would be. Drunken nights happen. Im not very trustworthy of people so id be like uhh why cant u move in with the same sex. but then theres a problem when u get some dudes in an apartment cuz then they bring over chicks and party.

So anyways she said shes not sure how she feels about it. I told her to just see how it goes for a few months and if you feel that somethings not right hten get the F out. :-)

[BlackCelicaGT94]

The only thing I can relate it to is that Ive known Coomer for 3 years now and id say hes a pretty good friend of mine. Weve never even hugged and so I can pretty much 99.99999 percent gurantee nothing would ever ever ever happen between us. that .00001 percent is incase were the only people alive someday and we had to start a new world or something. lol

so if i was in the situation i could be trusted with my best guy friend. idk.

[Bigmeanbulldog55]

The only thing I can relate it to is that Ive known Coomer for 3 years now and id say hes a pretty good friend of mine. Weve never even hugged and so I can pretty much 99.99999 percent gurantee nothing would ever ever ever happen between us. that .00001 percent is incase were the only people alive someday and we had to start a new world or something. lol

so if i was in the situation i could be trusted with my best guy friend. idk.

lol. Girls, you are all so naive. It's not a bad thing. It keeps you innocent and cute acting. It’s simple psychology based on the Mere Expose Effect and Emotional Misunderstanding. We will like what we are around all the time, that’s why work place romances are common, or crushes on co-workers. Emotional Misunderstanding is also common. Fear and excitement, anger and sadness, love and hate are all emotions that are commonly misunderstood by people. It’s a pretty neat principle really. It can be the art of manipulation in the wrong hands. I must confess, I have done this myself. I’ve misused signals and cues to achieve goals, but they were for the better good of all people evolved. It was the first time I felt manipulation could be used in a positive way.