Relationship Breaks Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

how many of you have gone thru them and what do you think of them? How do they work?

When u both decide to take a break but not see other people. I dont get why ur just not together.

[yarik83]

There are two ways to approach a breakup.

Emotional way. Where both of you love and hate each other and try to scramble things together hoping to get back together while in retrospect the new relationship will be just a revisit of old one but masked in careful and selective toleration of each other's bad sides. Eventually things resurface and you are in for round 2.

Winning way. When you go out on a white horse and a winner. You brush it of your shoulder and not think about it at all.. and I mean not think about it. Obviously your ex will think about it more than you do and try to make ascene every time you are with somebody new. If you stick to your guns and not discuss your breakup it is easier because a breakup is a breakup is a breakup.

I personally know guys who went into counceling after breakups.. I also know guys who tried stalking in a good and a bad way.. I know guys who received a court marshal order to stay the heck away from their x. I also know guys who successfully got back together with their xes and are now married and have kids.

In a relationship if you feel that that perosn is the one.. then you get up on your feet and fix it.. if its a matter of.. nah we just been dating cause we needed BF/GF its better to leave it alone.