i need opinions... Options

[spolski07]

so i dated a girl for 6 months... only to have her break up with me so she could be with her friend.
they date for 5 months and during that 5 months she calls me almost every week, and towards the end, every day crying and complaining that her new boyfriend is a jerk and is to controlling.
she breaks up with him, because she wants to be with me again.
I was going to take it very slow cause i dont feel like getting burned again, only to have her call me saying she is pregnet with his kid...
what should i think/do?

[uberschall]

REMOVE YOURSELF FROM THIS SITUATION.

if you have to ask us, you're probably not really ready to be remotely involved with a mortality decision or fatherhood (nothing personal, but unless you've already made up your mind concerning either...it's too late now). especially since the kid isn't yours, get as far away from her as you can.

she obviously realizes you're a better person than what's-his-face and she's trying to play off that to get your support, and don't let her do it.

she left you, got knocked up, and now she wants you to make it all better.

i'm not suggesting you be a dick about it, but realize that if she really loved you, this never would have happened. perhaps you can offer your support in some manner, but decide for yourself what your limit of involvement is going to be and make that clear to her.

good luck man, sounds like a real cluster.