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 Apr 30, 2007 - 7:26 AM
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so i dated a girl for 6 months... only to have her break up with me so she could be with her friend.
they date for 5 months and during that 5 months she calls me almost every week, and towards the end, every day crying and complaining that her new boyfriend is a jerk and is to controlling. she breaks up with him, because she wants to be with me again. I was going to take it very slow cause i dont feel like getting burned again, only to have her call me saying she is pregnet with his kid... what should i think/do? -------------------- 2015 Subaru WRX. World Rally Blue/Black
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Apr 30, 2007 - 9:25 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Jul 29, '03 From north of detroit Currently Offline Reputation: 6 (100%) |
REMOVE YOURSELF FROM THIS SITUATION.
if you have to ask us, you're probably not really ready to be remotely involved with a mortality decision or fatherhood (nothing personal, but unless you've already made up your mind concerning either...it's too late now). especially since the kid isn't yours, get as far away from her as you can. she obviously realizes you're a better person than what's-his-face and she's trying to play off that to get your support, and don't let her do it. she left you, got knocked up, and now she wants you to make it all better. i'm not suggesting you be a dick about it, but realize that if she really loved you, this never would have happened. perhaps you can offer your support in some manner, but decide for yourself what your limit of involvement is going to be and make that clear to her. good luck man, sounds like a real cluster. --------------------  do you know who i am, mr. worley? |
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May 1, 2007 - 12:59 AM
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Enthusiast Joined May 3, '06 From New Hampshire Currently Offline Reputation: 2 (100%) |
QUOTE(uberschall @ Apr 30, 2007 - 9:25 PM) [snapback]552682[/snapback] REMOVE YOURSELF FROM THIS SITUATION. ^^x2, everything he said. Shes coming back to you bc you were the best out of both of you and she wants you to make it all better, I and many others aren't without our first love, we live and deal. Offer her your support but realize if she really and absolutly cared about you and loved you, she wouldn't have left for a dirtbag and let herself get pregnant. It's going to be rough but be a good friend and a shoulder to cry on but steer away from feelings that may bring you together till the whole situation has time to clear off and die down. Then you'll know where hers and your feelings stand. --------------------  Darin H. |
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spolski07 i need opinions... Apr 30, 2007 - 7:26 AM
Supersprynt Are you over this girl? If your over her I'd s... Apr 30, 2007 - 7:34 AM spolski07 no im not
she was i guess my "first love... Apr 30, 2007 - 7:47 AM tim86 stay away... why would you want her after she ran ... Apr 30, 2007 - 8:06 AM Supersprynt I don't think she's pregnant he's just... Apr 30, 2007 - 8:34 AM x_itchy_b_x QUOTE(Supersprynt @ Apr 30, 2007 - 9... Apr 30, 2007 - 9:07 AM giang723 man all i can say is, don't let her use u, jus... Apr 30, 2007 - 10:26 AM spolski07 QUOTE(Supersprynt @ Apr 30, 2007 - 8... Apr 30, 2007 - 4:43 PM
Shea_K47 wow... i seem to be havin the same exact problem. ... May 1, 2007 - 5:23 AM cnelson i know its kinda cliche, but "theres always o... May 1, 2007 - 5:40 AM spolski07 thanks for all the help guys May 1, 2007 - 9:07 AM
BlackCelicaGT94 I think this is what you should do -
Everyone mak... May 1, 2007 - 2:02 PM |
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