Turn offs Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

What are your turn offs with the opposite sex?


Heres mine

Bad Teeth
when they cant read my mind or take hints :-P

[yarik83]

she was talking to me and addressing my reply. well 2 of my replies.

Where she is having a difficulty is right at the point of where she stands in life. Being young and all places Tina and me in different boats. I seen Tina in person during our NY meet she seemed like a sweet and funny outgoing person. However what I am getting at is not easy to understand from a girls perspective.

I am not a "boyfriend" because of my finanical income I am a head of household. There is a very big difference between a boyfriend and a person with money. Boyfriends often live separately, meet you several times per week.. a head of household is a person you wake up next to and live together with and have him as financial backup.

Unlike many people here I was not born in USA, although I am a citizen.. I was not born to a family who payed for all my expenses and let me live with them till I was 24. I was not born to a family in which my biological parents and my relatives on one page. As a matter of fact most of my family requires some serious psychiatric evaluation on my mothers side and my fathers side. I have not seen my father for over 15 years, I have not had a father figure for 20 years. I do have a step father who does not respect me in ways a father would. I left my parents at age of 15 not speaking a word of english. I lived in a junkyard car for a year and worked on 3 job while finishing high school. I was also involved in 3 jobs throughout my college and every single job I had.. and I had over 30 jobs over the years. I had not received help paying for school nor any financial help.. so......

When I seeked female companionship I found it in every shape and form between ages 15 and 24. And to my demise there was never a win win situation.

A girl dreams of a guy arriving on a white horse, resquing her and yada yada they lived happily ever after. In my life.. as in many other guys lives we get into a relationship and it often sucks. Quite often we get this money suckling not having any sence lady who meets our sexual needs or we get this mrs perfect kiss me on the cheek every other wednesday mrs smarty pants.

I am a bitter person because of how my past relationships worked out. They all sucked. Now I take a more direct approach and remain a bachelor. Its easier that way. Also more economical. By not having a "girlfriend" I save about 200+++++ every month. No gifts, no going out and paying for dinner, no flowers, no covering someone else's tab, no money missing from my wallet and no problems at all.

So what I do do is go out.. meet chicks.. make a trip to walgreens woot woot go home and sleep like a baby with all bases covered for the day.

This post has been edited by yarik83: Jul 16, 2007 - 11:03 PM