Questions to the guys of 6gc Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

I found this article on msn that asked these questions to guys. I just would like to see your guys answers


Thanks in advance


Q: What do you think about women who sleep with you on the first or second date—does it impact whether you see her as a potential long-term girlfriend?

Q: Are there cases where you do sleep with a woman early on, but are still open to a serious relationship with her—say, if the sex is great, or you two really hit it off during brunch the next day, or she's friends of friends?

Q: In your experience, do you think women who make you wait for sex end up being better long-term partners?

Q: What, in your mind, is an appropriate amount of time for two people to be dating before sleeping together?

Q: If a woman does end up falling in bed with you pretty quickly, are there things she can do to pave the way toward a longer relationship?

This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Jul 18, 2007 - 3:51 PM

[Supersprynt]

Doesn't impact me at all. Do it when it feels right.

Basically this is asking about a one-night stand. Yes theres potential, but unlikelihood that it will be very serious.

I don't think it matters.

There is no "appropriate" time. Its whenever the two individuals feel right about it.

This is assuming falling in bed early is a bad thing. It takes 2 to tango.

Seems to me that this whole questionnaire is biased. Both men and women will sleep with each other early, but the girl gets the bad rap. Marriage & monogamy are unnatural.

[jgreening]

Marriage & monogamy are unnatural.

So what? Are you advocating avoiding marriage and monogamy because they are unnatural? I am sure you will agree that having offspring is "natural". If so, can I assume that you advocate having bastard children? And, when the parents get tired of one another, then it would be "unnatural" to stay together, right? Probably a great move for the "natural" desires of the parents - or at least one of them. I am not so sure about the kids - but screw them, right?

The position is symptomatic of a real problem in our culture. Many people are too quick to do whatever "feels" good at the time regardless of their prior committments, the long term repercusions, or the effect that their decision has on others.