Questions to the guys of 6gc Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

I found this article on msn that asked these questions to guys. I just would like to see your guys answers


Thanks in advance


Q: What do you think about women who sleep with you on the first or second date—does it impact whether you see her as a potential long-term girlfriend?

Q: Are there cases where you do sleep with a woman early on, but are still open to a serious relationship with her—say, if the sex is great, or you two really hit it off during brunch the next day, or she's friends of friends?

Q: In your experience, do you think women who make you wait for sex end up being better long-term partners?

Q: What, in your mind, is an appropriate amount of time for two people to be dating before sleeping together?

Q: If a woman does end up falling in bed with you pretty quickly, are there things she can do to pave the way toward a longer relationship?

This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Jul 18, 2007 - 3:51 PM

[Supersprynt]

You said "can I assume..." and then argued the point that you already did. So even though you asked the question, you really didn't wait for an answer; you basically answered it yourself. I felt this was not fair. Still you argue that because I made a statement that marriage & monogamy are unnatural that I can't and won't participate in it? I already said this and for the sake of being repetitive, because I make a general statement about the origins of marriage does not reflect my personal opinion on the subject. Like earlier, I can say that fruit juice is not a natural substance but that does NOT mean I don't thoroughly enjoy drinking it.

You have no grounds regarding personal attacks. I do not make them unless I myself have already been attacked:

Wow....that's an absolutely absurd statement. Perhaps your forgetting that monogamy is fairly common among animals, and even some insects. For someone to say this suggests not only lack of any measure of personal morality, but a lifestyle significantly lower in conduct than that of most animals.

Thats really not a fair or true statement. All of a sudden I have lack of morality and lifestyle lower in conduct that most animals. First off, MOST animals aren't monogamous (roughly 4% of mammals). Secondly, I have very high moral standards and it has no bearing on my stance on issues as these. It was a completely unfounded statement and I took offense to it.

I would only be hypocritical if I were to say I won't every participate in marriage and monogamy. I was never trying to make the point that either of those are wrong. Again, and again I've stated this. I'm starting to think theres a loss of translation. So to be absolutely clear; I am not against marriage nor monogamy. I stated that both of those things, in regards to primalistic human beings, are unnatural. As in the beginning of humanity, not now. If your arguing this is not the case that monogamy and marriage were not a product of society and evolution then I can better understand your position. Which honestly, I'm not exactly sure of, considering I'm not anti-marriage/monogamy?

Also: I feel as though this is isn't well placed on a forum. If you, and anyone else would like to continue talking off board, I'd support that. I can provide an email.

This post has been edited by Supersprynt: Jul 24, 2007 - 11:29 AM