Questions to the guys of 6gc Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

I found this article on msn that asked these questions to guys. I just would like to see your guys answers


Thanks in advance


Q: What do you think about women who sleep with you on the first or second date—does it impact whether you see her as a potential long-term girlfriend?

Q: Are there cases where you do sleep with a woman early on, but are still open to a serious relationship with her—say, if the sex is great, or you two really hit it off during brunch the next day, or she's friends of friends?

Q: In your experience, do you think women who make you wait for sex end up being better long-term partners?

Q: What, in your mind, is an appropriate amount of time for two people to be dating before sleeping together?

Q: If a woman does end up falling in bed with you pretty quickly, are there things she can do to pave the way toward a longer relationship?

This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Jul 18, 2007 - 3:51 PM

[jgreening]

I understand that you are now taking the position that when you state that something is "unnatural" it is more of a statement of condition as oppose to judgement. For instance, if someone were to say "Cindy is an idiot" he wouldn't necessarily being making a value judgement about whether being an idiot is a good or a bad thing. On the contrary, he would just be describing the fact that Cindy has an intellectual capacity similar to that of people who are definitionally idiots.

The problem with this position is that words like "unnatural" and "idiot" strongly imply a derogatory context from a point of view of disapproval. People typically use these words when they are criticizing. Here is a sentence: "Tom said, 'Cindy is an idiot'." Was Tom criticizing Cindy? Most people would say yes despite the fact that detached, logical and overly anal Tom might protest up and down that he was only trying to describe her mental condition accurately. I wasn't trying to say I don't like her!

I guess you could say that your position is unnatural.......but that doesn't mean I don't wholehartedly endorse it.