NEED alarm help, put what in where now? Options

[Hanyo]

Hey everyone.
I'm gonna get the alarm in the mail soon and i want to know what wires i need to tap into.

My 1st question is: where do u guys drill the hole for the red blinking light? i want a place where it wont affect my car much if the alarm burns out.

2: do i need a diode for the alarms un/lock door wires. (so when i'm in the car and i push the button to lock the doors it wont burn my alarm) yup i have power locks already. the box says"Door Locks & Parking lights Built-In Relays"

3: the brake light thing. i was reading a post b4 and it mentioned a wire at the tail-light fusebox. where is that? and how do i attach that?

4: what wire (color and location) is the parking light relay, so the lights blink 4 the alarm.

5: this alarm has remote start. the box says "Built-In Start Relays,Accessories,Ignition,Starter Outputs" so what wires do i need to play with ( coomer?) yea i never did this remote start installation b4. and dont worry i have an automatic tranny.

6. I'm thinking about installing a proximity senor with this car. so i can leave my windows down while its infront of my house. where should i mount it?

well that is about it. thanks in advance. i just need to know what these wires look like and where they are at.

[Hanyo]

I was thinking about drilling the hole in those assesories addon plastic things, but it was too low and i would think a thief wouldn't see it. i'm thinking about putting the light on the steering wheel plastic cover rite infront of the gauges. or next to my cd player.

the thing that worries me about hooking the relays directly to the lock wires is that the celica has a lock moduel and i read something about a negative trigger system. (what negative trigger??? my alarm system uses built-in-relays, so i assume its gonna send out 12 volts) so i'm just worried about how to do this.

And coomer if ur ever interested in finding the parking light, well its in the far back corner next to the firewall, i think it was green and black. it was pretty hard to find. i had to trace it from that green wire u were talking about. that green wire is a micro switch and uses little power, so if u hook up 12volts to it, it will burn out.
the the12volt.com guide said it was located at the Dimmer or Fuse Panel

hmm. neutral safety switch?? where is that at?

I'm thinking about mouning this sensor on the roof or something, so it can get a clear view of the inside of the car. hmm i dunno.