NEED alarm help, put what in where now? Options

[Hanyo]

Hey everyone.
I'm gonna get the alarm in the mail soon and i want to know what wires i need to tap into.

My 1st question is: where do u guys drill the hole for the red blinking light? i want a place where it wont affect my car much if the alarm burns out.

2: do i need a diode for the alarms un/lock door wires. (so when i'm in the car and i push the button to lock the doors it wont burn my alarm) yup i have power locks already. the box says"Door Locks & Parking lights Built-In Relays"

3: the brake light thing. i was reading a post b4 and it mentioned a wire at the tail-light fusebox. where is that? and how do i attach that?

4: what wire (color and location) is the parking light relay, so the lights blink 4 the alarm.

5: this alarm has remote start. the box says "Built-In Start Relays,Accessories,Ignition,Starter Outputs" so what wires do i need to play with ( coomer?) yea i never did this remote start installation b4. and dont worry i have an automatic tranny.

6. I'm thinking about installing a proximity senor with this car. so i can leave my windows down while its infront of my house. where should i mount it?

well that is about it. thanks in advance. i just need to know what these wires look like and where they are at.

[Coomer]

Above the negative trigger locks, that just means that you will need to send a ground pulse to either wire in order to unlock or lock the doors. If your alarm puts out +12 volts for the locking wires, then just use a couple SPDT relays in order to send ground signals to the locking wires.

As for the neutral safety switch, I'm not sure where it's at or what color the wire is, but it should be a wire coming from your gear selector area that will give you a ground signal when the car is in neutral or park.

Hope this helps. Also, thanks for the parking light wire location. Do you know exactly where this wire is at?