BUNCH OF BS, Need someone to talk to...... Options

[celiracer]

I really need someone to talk to right now. I've been dating my g/f for 3 1/2 years. And I just found out that she has feelings for someone else. She says that she doesn't know what she wants right now. And doesn't know if she wants me or this other person. I have no idea what to do. I love her so much, and she means everything to me. She also says that she still cares for me and still loves me. But doesn't know what to do. what should i do? And what does everyone else think about this situation?

[Jlacker3]

All good advice...but I think you should walk away. You may not want to because you'll feel like you've wasted 3 1/2 years. You havent though! You gotta look at everything in life as an experience that builds your character and can make you a better person. That's how people get wise!

If you two were truly in love she wouldn't even be questioning your relationship. I've dated girls. And I've been married now for over a year. Someone will come along that will realize they'll want to be with you forever no questions asked (unless one of you cheats on each other) which, in my eyes, your GF is doing.

She also could be saying she loves you and cares about you b/c she wants to keep you around if her new interest doesn't turn out...

It's ultimately up to you...but remember if she is interested in someone else now, what is going to stop her from being interested in someone else later down the line. That's an immaturity issue. TRUST ME, if you hang around your just gonna be putting yourself in for more hurt.

Dont' ever EVER let a girl mean EVERYTHING to you. I love my wife to death. But if something ever happened to me I would want her to have someone else and she is the same way about me. She's 9 months pregnat with our 1st child. We put God first, each other/family, then work. There are tons of ways to occupy your time to get your mind off of her.

The bottom line is "she doesn't know what she wants right now" which means "she doesn't know if she wants to be with you anymore" People "love and care" for their mother's. If she "doesn't know what to do", then she doesn't really love and care for you in the same way you do anymore.

Just walk away, man. It'll be hard at first, but way worth when you meet a girl that is actually COMPLETELY in love with you.

Hope this helps!

Sincerely
Dr. McLovin
(lol j/k)