BUNCH OF BS, Need someone to talk to...... Options

[celiracer]

I really need someone to talk to right now. I've been dating my g/f for 3 1/2 years. And I just found out that she has feelings for someone else. She says that she doesn't know what she wants right now. And doesn't know if she wants me or this other person. I have no idea what to do. I love her so much, and she means everything to me. She also says that she still cares for me and still loves me. But doesn't know what to do. what should i do? And what does everyone else think about this situation?

[xs94st]

if she has feelings for someone else..IMHO give her the boot. or, yall can just take a 'break' n see wtf happens. i duno how i would feel if my gf had feelings for another person. honestly, i duno what you should do. spontaneity is something that a relationship should have so that neither of you get bored or start looking elsewhere. how did she meet this other person? did she try to look for someone else? or did it all just happen? you gotta talk to her n figure out what she wants cuz if she truly wants to be with the other person, you should just let her go.

x2 for itchy n china. i believe that if a girl needs to think about it, no problem. but time just makes it harder for both of you

3.5 years is a long time.



if you are young.

if you are 30 or older, i guess you should try n keep the peace n stay together. if you are younger, its all good. 3.5 years outta your entire life..its a speed bump, sayin its time to slow down n try other shiite out. im only 20. i got my gf. she wants to marry me. i want to marry her. but hell, who knows.

shiite happens man, you just gotta wipe it off n keep on truckin.

lol. i want to click add reply but i cant cuz im trynta think of some more stuff..

i think you should ask yourself, 'can i see myself married to this girl for the rest of my life? with kids? gettin old together?'