BUNCH OF BS, Need someone to talk to...... Options

[celiracer]

I really need someone to talk to right now. I've been dating my g/f for 3 1/2 years. And I just found out that she has feelings for someone else. She says that she doesn't know what she wants right now. And doesn't know if she wants me or this other person. I have no idea what to do. I love her so much, and she means everything to me. She also says that she still cares for me and still loves me. But doesn't know what to do. what should i do? And what does everyone else think about this situation?

[lubu]

All good advices. But you gotta understand something: Why is she considering some one else? Is it because:

a. Is it because you havent been good enough to her?
b. You were good but lately slacking that affection that you once had??

In my opinion people especially girls, tend to lean on guys who love them and can provide their needs. I personally think she is an honest person for telling you abt the other person, she can just mouth-shut then out of a sudden, leaves you.

Maybe us, guys, feel betrayed and hurted when our girls having a second thought but please look in the mirror and ask urself a few simple questions, "are you what you should be???"

Nowaday i tend to concentrate on modding my car and not leaving enough time for my girl, but i quickly realised and made up for it. Doesnt have to be anything special, just simple outdoor dinner with some wine and way you go...

Just advice based on experiences. Look back and think what went wrong, if she is nice then the fault must be you. FIX IT. If she isnt that great then its time to move on.

Three 1/2 years is a long time....

edit: for ppl who saids that she's banging the other guy, what are you based on? Dont say it if you dont know abt the girl. Have some respect!!!

This post has been edited by lubu: Sep 5, 2007 - 12:50 PM