I got some bad trust issues and i need some help Options

[cHinaman727]

I guess it's good that I can admit this, but I have serious trust issues when it comes to relationships.

My ex girlfriend cheated on me twice (she was a!@#!@$), and ever since then I have a hard time trusting. I've been doing some research and apparently I'm the kind of person that has to "know" everything. I guess that kinda spins off of the fact that I am a want-proof kinda guy. My problem is that I know that I can't "know" everything for sure about a relationship, that just doesnt happen, and in the mean time, I am beating myself up mentally.

Help would be very very appreciated.

Ignorant, stupid, offensive or non-helpful opinions not welcome.

[MaskedMan]

Believe me, you DONT want to know everything. If you knew everything then a relationship would be sooo boring. Once a relationship becomes predictable, you will just lose interest. Being able to trust is the first part of a relationship. Can't trust yet? Then don't get into a relationship, becuase if she knows you don't trust her, then her cheating on you is the least of your worries. Nobody wants to be with someone who doesn't trust them, so it wouldn't work out anyways. You gotta leave some things up to chance man. If you spend all this time worrying, you'll miss out on a lot of great stuff. If a girl cheats on you, then w/e walk away. She isn't worth your time or thought, so move onto the next one.