I got some bad trust issues and i need some help Options

[cHinaman727]

I guess it's good that I can admit this, but I have serious trust issues when it comes to relationships.

My ex girlfriend cheated on me twice (she was a!@#!@$), and ever since then I have a hard time trusting. I've been doing some research and apparently I'm the kind of person that has to "know" everything. I guess that kinda spins off of the fact that I am a want-proof kinda guy. My problem is that I know that I can't "know" everything for sure about a relationship, that just doesnt happen, and in the mean time, I am beating myself up mentally.

Help would be very very appreciated.

Ignorant, stupid, offensive or non-helpful opinions not welcome.

[97Celica]

The best advice I can give is just be yourself and don't ever pry into a woman's life. The truth always comes out. Some people are just nasty people. Your ex obviously was. But,you can't live your life in fear that EVERYONE is like that. You need to approach relationships as if you were NEVER hurt,ever. I am with the most amazing woman EVER now and it's because I didn't bring any BS baggage and we are growing as friends and lovers more and more each day...especially since we live together now and I am trying to get her to trade in her VW for a Toyota