I got some bad trust issues and i need some help Options

[cHinaman727]

I guess it's good that I can admit this, but I have serious trust issues when it comes to relationships.

My ex girlfriend cheated on me twice (she was a!@#!@$), and ever since then I have a hard time trusting. I've been doing some research and apparently I'm the kind of person that has to "know" everything. I guess that kinda spins off of the fact that I am a want-proof kinda guy. My problem is that I know that I can't "know" everything for sure about a relationship, that just doesnt happen, and in the mean time, I am beating myself up mentally.

Help would be very very appreciated.

Ignorant, stupid, offensive or non-helpful opinions not welcome.

[xs94st]

When I find myself start to ask questions/be suspicious, I think STOP! and then I try and listen to something esle or think about my celica

nah dude seriously..thats exactly what i used to do when i had my mk3..i would think about fixin her up or some other shiite n jus let it go. im glad you're startin to ease your self in..sorta like mergin into traffic cept some asshole wont let you in..jus gotta take it slow.

take care man, were here if ya need us.