For all the ppl out there, who live away from their parents Options

[NaderG]

SO ! i am pretty much sick with living at home , i have had it with being bossed around , yelled at , called names and consistently abused and of course no matter what i do to make things better , it never does and i end up being hurt a bit more !
now that i am done with my introduction , i will now tell you what are my current choices for this situation :
1- Stay living here , miserable of course , constantly distracted from school and work by the over sized drama load that is really ridiculous , which will eventually lead me to choice number 3

2- Here where my question is : I am thinking of moving out of here, and get my own life .... i don't have any friends, and i don't know really where to go but i was wondering about the cost of living , specially here in so-cal ... this choice is really not easy .... anyways , i can kind of see my self with this choice , basically working 10X harder , going to school ( college) , i will also be outcasted by the community of people i live in ( Egyptian people ) and still pretty miserable ... eventually choice 3 will start looking good

3- of course the big one , lol .... well , it is really simple , it has something to do with some pills and lots of water , or maybe car exhaust in a unventilated area ...and then everything turns out better.. i think thats enough hints

ya i know i sound like i am whining like a baby , but its really hard( and way too long) to explain what i been going through for the last ...... **** i don't know how long , it feels like forever and it seems like it never going to end ......

i dont know why i am posting this on here , but i dont know anywhere else where i can let this off my chest , specially that no one really knows who i am on here ....

This post has been edited by NaderG: Oct 24, 2007 - 10:24 PM

[xs94st]

damn nader man..sorry stuff aint workin out wit ya.

i lived at Cal Poly Pomona for a year for school, but that didnt work out n i went to live back at home..n for me, it was a cheap alternative with only sacrificing the fact that my dad would be home during the day. we don't get along well - different religious views, feelings about my mom passing away, me being an underage drinker, him being a McArsehole when he comes home drunk as a bum telln us shiite, n other things..he even tried to knock my arse out one time-n the before he hit me he started to grab some hedge shears...yea..he ended up hittin me with a folding baseball chair (the kind that you pull out the four legs n sit in the middle) n that was the point when i said i was movin out. i was 18 still, gonna be 19, n i went n moved in with my gf in her apartment.

yea, pretty damn young to be moving in together, but she had some issues as well n she wanted me to be with her. actually, she wasnt even my gf at the time we were really close friends n eventually become a couple. but neways, i moved out, got a job, workd n paid my share n had a good time. it has been rough some times, not being able to buy what you want n having to save up for things, but its all part of growin up. i still go to school, trying to get back into Pomona for manufacturing engineering, so im hoping my life turns around again..not like its not what i want it to be, but where i wanna restart at.

if you have to, move out. but, should get some friends n eventually become closer (doesnt take much time for guys cuz we cool like that) n just move in together n share that rent. make sure you have a steady job AND can go to school..you need that edumacation homie.

thats jus my couple cents..

good luck m8