For all the ppl out there, who live away from their parents Options

[NaderG]

SO ! i am pretty much sick with living at home , i have had it with being bossed around , yelled at , called names and consistently abused and of course no matter what i do to make things better , it never does and i end up being hurt a bit more !
now that i am done with my introduction , i will now tell you what are my current choices for this situation :
1- Stay living here , miserable of course , constantly distracted from school and work by the over sized drama load that is really ridiculous , which will eventually lead me to choice number 3

2- Here where my question is : I am thinking of moving out of here, and get my own life .... i don't have any friends, and i don't know really where to go but i was wondering about the cost of living , specially here in so-cal ... this choice is really not easy .... anyways , i can kind of see my self with this choice , basically working 10X harder , going to school ( college) , i will also be outcasted by the community of people i live in ( Egyptian people ) and still pretty miserable ... eventually choice 3 will start looking good

3- of course the big one , lol .... well , it is really simple , it has something to do with some pills and lots of water , or maybe car exhaust in a unventilated area ...and then everything turns out better.. i think thats enough hints

ya i know i sound like i am whining like a baby , but its really hard( and way too long) to explain what i been going through for the last ...... **** i don't know how long , it feels like forever and it seems like it never going to end ......

i dont know why i am posting this on here , but i dont know anywhere else where i can let this off my chest , specially that no one really knows who i am on here ....

This post has been edited by NaderG: Oct 24, 2007 - 10:24 PM

[xs94st]

i think that you should seek some professional help and force your family to realize what the hell is really happening. yea, it sounds weird n all that, but i remember that somebody already suggested this in the thread..

im really serious though nader. please, seek some sort of professional help so that your family can realize what is happening. if they blame it on you, then thats it. move out. dont tell them what you are doing or anything like that. just endure all this for alil while so that you can plan everything..find a place, make sure u can make the rent/utilities/food/gas for yourself then move out.

no disrespect to you or your culture, but you gotta realize that this is your life and you cant let some stupid tradition ruin your life. you are an AMERICAN in the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA. we all have the right to be happy with our lives. you cannot let this continue man. i dont wanna hear news about a dead kid in riverside. please man, if you need help i'd be willing to go with you. i dont care if i hardly know you. if you need someone, just ask.

dont think about doing the #3 that you posted. please dont.

i know life is tough. you dont have to go through it alone.