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 Jan 9, 2008 - 8:30 AM
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 my 12 year-old is being bullied again. he hadn't talked abut it in a while and everything seemed OK. his disposition is always cheerful and although he has moderate to severe learning and social disabilities, still loves to go to school. at least, he has never once said "i don't like it there" or "school sucks!". yesterday he was ambushed and shot at with a BB gun off school property. we have alerted the school and are waiting to talk to the RCMP-school liaison officer today. is there anyone out there who can guide me through this before i do something stupid? i have a very short fuse and am quite a poweful man. combine the two and you have an assault waiting to happen. not that i would ever harm a child, but if i ever confront one of these bullies' parents and they piss me off, i could very easily take it out on them-- verbally (a given) or physically. peace ray --------------------  |
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Jan 9, 2008 - 4:20 PM
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Nice post Shink. However I think the situation is a little more serious. His kid got shot at with a BB gun. If the bully kept stealing his lunch or just simply made fun of him I can see what you mentioned above working. But if my kids got shot at by a couple jerks... I'd be pissed.
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Jan 9, 2008 - 4:26 PM
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QUOTE(Chanh55 @ Jan 9, 2008 - 4:20 PM) [snapback]629584[/snapback] Nice post Shink. However I think the situation is a little more serious. His kid got shot at with a BB gun. If the bully kept stealing his lunch or just simply made fun of him I can see what you mentioned above working. But if my kids got shot at by a couple jerks... I'd be pissed. I agree with you. The BB gun thing is very, very serious. But trust me, you will not resolve the bullying by dealing with that attack. All you will resolve by dealing with the BB gun attack is the BB gun attack. Two things are going on here and they both need their own strategy. |
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Jan 9, 2008 - 4:34 PM
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QUOTE(Shink @ Jan 9, 2008 - 1:26 PM) [snapback]629587[/snapback] QUOTE(Chanh55 @ Jan 9, 2008 - 4:20 PM) [snapback]629584[/snapback] Nice post Shink. However I think the situation is a little more serious. His kid got shot at with a BB gun. If the bully kept stealing his lunch or just simply made fun of him I can see what you mentioned above working. But if my kids got shot at by a couple jerks... I'd be pissed. I agree with you. The BB gun thing is very, very serious. But trust me, you will not resolve the bullying by dealing with that attack. All you will resolve by dealing with the BB gun attack is the BB gun attack. Two things are going on here and they both need their own strategy. I don't think he should take the law into his own hands... what those kids did has to be illegal. I would try to press charges and have the kids expelled. I can't believe his kid would still go to school after something like that. |
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Jan 9, 2008 - 5:41 PM
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QUOTE(Chanh55 @ Jan 9, 2008 - 9:34 PM) [snapback]629592[/snapback] I don't think he should take the law into his own hands... what those kids did has to be illegal. I would try to press charges and have the kids expelled. I can't believe his kid would still go to school after something like that. Having a child who already has behavioral issues expelled from school will do nothing but make him worse. Yes its a serious issue but fighting fire with nuclear weapons doesn't solve anything, it just means one more kid in juvi. -------------------- "He won't come out of the bathroom. He keeps telling us we're dark somethings and not his friends."
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Jan 9, 2008 - 7:07 PM
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QUOTE(thespacepanda @ Jan 9, 2008 - 2:41 PM) [snapback]629611[/snapback] QUOTE(Chanh55 @ Jan 9, 2008 - 9:34 PM) [snapback]629592[/snapback] I don't think he should take the law into his own hands... what those kids did has to be illegal. I would try to press charges and have the kids expelled. I can't believe his kid would still go to school after something like that. Having a child who already has behavioral issues expelled from school will do nothing but make him worse. Yes its a serious issue but fighting fire with nuclear weapons doesn't solve anything, it just means one more kid in juvi. You're right, the correctional system tends to make people worse... however I doubt you'll be saying that if it was your kid getting shot at. |
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axelrduvirage BULLIED !!!! Jan 9, 2008 - 8:30 AM
Supersprynt Wouldn't that be a police matter? That's b... Jan 9, 2008 - 8:41 AM cnelson I'd call that assault. Being shot at and bulli... Jan 9, 2008 - 9:57 AM cHinaman727 Your child could have been seriously harmed by a B... Jan 9, 2008 - 10:19 AM playr158 Call the police, file a report.....you can easily ... Jan 9, 2008 - 10:41 AM FreddyTheOthaMeat Wow if some kids shot at my kid with a bb gun id p... Jan 9, 2008 - 11:55 AM BigRog95 QUOTE(axelrduvirage @ Jan 9, 2008 - 8... Jan 9, 2008 - 12:43 PM zero07 I would get the cops involved and of course get th... Jan 9, 2008 - 2:15 PM
Shink I'm a teacher, and I have to say, even though ... Jan 9, 2008 - 4:03 PM jason terroristic actions anyone?? columbine?
im surpri... Jan 9, 2008 - 4:33 PM axelrduvirage thanks to all. the matter is being handled by the... Jan 9, 2008 - 4:33 PM lagos Find out who did it, get the cops involved and pre... Jan 9, 2008 - 4:36 PM xs94st i would have gone to the parents and discussed thi... Jan 9, 2008 - 10:22 PM Punisher I'd say teach your kid the J-hook and ground ... Jan 9, 2008 - 10:31 PM hongkongnerdboy give your child a paintball gun...
jk about that ... Jan 9, 2008 - 10:59 PM dabazied I was thinking paintball gun the whole post lol Jan 10, 2008 - 11:37 AM |
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