Question to all guys here at 6gc, about girls................... Options

[joehernandez]

I know most of the 6gc members are men,
well, i wanted to ask you,
there is this girl i like, and she likes me too, but for some reasons we can't still be together..
the question is,
would you guys let her dance freak with your friends?
even if you are not boyfriend to her?
what about the ones that are in a relationship, would you let her?

i am asking cuz it really sucked for me, and i really want to tell her about that it make me really mad
going to the club and seen her dancing with me and two of my friend freak,.......
need opinions!!

[D-Man]

uh okay... I've figured out this much so far: (i'm not being sexist here, this is just General Peoples Thoughts on the sexes, its a fairly accurate stereotype, but a stereotype none-the-less; nobody take offense here.)

Chicks are horribly emotional creatures. They have that whole "love & bond" thing for all kinds of stuff. Just loving and motherly by instinctive nature i suppose (idfk exactly why, but it's generally true) And even when a chick wants to let go, they have that whole "love & bond" going for them and makes them say things like that, because they don't wanna be a total ass like us guys (usually) tending to be, or at least we come off that way.

Sometimes chicks will just say things like that to spare our feelings (i suppose) because when they don't Totally hate us, They don't want us to feel downed. Because chicks get downed, depressed, or emotionally offset so much more often then us guys; they don't want to pass of the hurt that we're usually responsible for dishing out.

and i don't mean that all of us guys are asses, but if my gal ask me what outfit i like better, and i say i don't f-ing care; then she'll be [in some manor] upset or at least emotionally offset. the comment means more to her, than it does to me. But Death could ask me what shirt i like better and i'd call him homo, and tell him that unless it was covering his face, it dont matter because he'll still be ugly or something. And we would laugh about that. It'd be funny. no offense. No emotional offseting. The comment wouldn't be remembered after about 10 seconds. Us guys just are not as prone emotionally.

Do you understand what i'm trying to say? I know i'm not doing a good job of it, but does this make a bit of sense?

This post has been edited by D-Man: Aug 18, 2008 - 12:20 PM