Question to all guys here at 6gc, about girls................... Options

[joehernandez]

I know most of the 6gc members are men,
well, i wanted to ask you,
there is this girl i like, and she likes me too, but for some reasons we can't still be together..
the question is,
would you guys let her dance freak with your friends?
even if you are not boyfriend to her?
what about the ones that are in a relationship, would you let her?

i am asking cuz it really sucked for me, and i really want to tell her about that it make me really mad
going to the club and seen her dancing with me and two of my friend freak,.......
need opinions!!

[joehernandez]

^ agreed.

now, heres my 2 cents ;p

lol. but forreals, this sounds like a potential bad ending. my supervisor is a cute one, we've hung out, but when other people in my department started accusing her of playing favorites store management came in and said 'i told you so, now quit it.'

how much of a thing do you guys have for one another? a few dates? a few parties? how can she tell you she loves you when you aren't even within a relationship where you can exchange feelings/thoughts/etc about one another? no offense, but was she under the influence when she said it? i've been in the supervisor/higher authority situation before and i got out of it quick cuz she had a crazy ex...

but anyways, its not about her. its about you. what do you want? i haven't read through every single respond on this thread, but it seems like you are saying what she has done and not what you actually want to see happen.

i just stay away from the party girls. they have continuously broken my heart. the whole dealio with her freakin other guys? since you are not with her, all is fair game. hell, if you were together i'm sure she would want to go dance still. i just don't think its cool for that to happen when you're together though. my ex loved to dance. jesus, i don't wanna go in on all my personal shiz but it just makes sense. she would be dancing and i'd be getting/mixing drinks and guys would come up and sandwich her. now, from the boyfriend point of view, its pretty bad to see your girl dancing up on some strangers at your party. its cool for girls to dance, but when homegirl is getting really into it. hmm. lets just say that it pissed me off to see that and was the basis of a few arguments.

also, where exactly do you work joe? the whole boss/employer relationship thing depends on what kind of job and the number of coworkers IMO.

well, look,
she has a little girl, and his ex, just dont lets us be together,
and she has dance with me but i have never seen her dance with my friends until friday, that is the thing,
i thought she was only going to dance with me.
i just want to be with her,
no she wasnt under the influence when she said that,
it was right now, 2 hours ago, she is at work and i am at my house,
we exchange feelings and all that cuz we have been like that for a year,
but its nothing official yet!
we work at Shoe store, our store is big,
number of coworkers is, 8, 4 man and 4 woman,
we really have not had a problem at work,