Question to all guys here at 6gc, about girls................... Options

[joehernandez]

I know most of the 6gc members are men,
well, i wanted to ask you,
there is this girl i like, and she likes me too, but for some reasons we can't still be together..
the question is,
would you guys let her dance freak with your friends?
even if you are not boyfriend to her?
what about the ones that are in a relationship, would you let her?

i am asking cuz it really sucked for me, and i really want to tell her about that it make me really mad
going to the club and seen her dancing with me and two of my friend freak,.......
need opinions!!

[joehernandez]

sorry late reply i didnt know this thread was gonna blow up.

to truely love someone your first........

must get your heart broken and..............

in some way you must break someone's heart.

also i have somewhat the same problem my side. its a girl that thinks she can get any guy she wants cuz she's hott and kinda smart. well i had to break her heart when she tried to get me jealous and stuff. there is always someone that will reject her and say, "hmph....i can get something better than you." Sadly i had to do that............and guess what..................i did get girls way better than she was.
they'll also to try to do that guilt trip thingy im immune to that too

i think i will have to agree with you right here.
if something goes wrong now i know what to say hahaha

Te Querro
not
Te Amo

Gotcha

Okay then, that makes alot of sense now. I was really starting to worry about you there for a second

Also JOE have you guys decited on doing anything exclusively? you obviously like this chick alot. Have ya'll ever been out JUST THE TWO OF YOU? Otherwise, she has no idea and was just "gettn' down on the flooa" or whatever the hell you call it. If you want her to be more exclusive with you, then you need to show her that's how it's gunna be by takin her out JUST THE TWO of you and not WITH A BUNCH OF FRIENDS.

noooonoooooo, not love OK,,, i might be stupid but not that much to fall in love soon
sure we have been together, only the two of us,,,,, sorry but no more details hehehehe

so recap dude is mad cuz some chick he was chillin with was dancing like a floozy with some of his friends? But if she aint your girl u cant really trip, when you kinda got one foot in the door already i suggest u just keep plowing ohter girls on the side and if this one comes around and it works out great, if not you were still doin you thang!!!
And you know what your problem is? Your putting the p***y on a pedestal!

ooooooh i think i got burned right here!!!!!!
nooo but i dont think is like that,,, thats waaaaaaaaaaay too much.

^LOL you WISH you could agree with slick rick

noooo that would be somehow perverted

daaaamn i have been burned twice this day

Joe, I doesn't matter the culture / language / or nationality

if a woman wants something serious with a guy the last thing she'd do is try to flirt with his friends, a lot of women do that, but not with the guy they wanna keep, just with the guys they wanna play. think about it this way, if you're trying to have a good healthy relationship with a girl, is it a wise move to hit on her friends ? yes she may get jealous and show more interest, but will it last ? unless you get lucky and she's bi....polar lol in that case you got a double play lol.

and you said this has been going on for a year and nothing concrete yet ? sounds to me like you're the security guy, for those lonely days or when all other plans fail, nothing wrong with that if you take it by what it is.

i think you really got me thinking right here,,,,,,,,
really good answer by the way.... thanks a lot,,


i just really surprised that this post has blown up!
i really never thought it was going to be this way,,,
thanks a lot everyone.
and someone said that this was not a place to talk about girls,,,