stupid problem with my mom about the celica PT2 Options

[mrgrape]

k so u guys locked it, without letting me response.
i already know what u guys mean when im an ungreatful kid.
and trust me i dont play that teenager game anymore where i think im right and I AM TELLING THE WHOLE STORY
i already appreciate her what shes doing as a single mom and still letting me stay in her house, though i help pay rent and the bills.
only thing im complaning about is how i work full time and go to school full time,(my body and mind is deteoriating)
yet shes yelling at me right after each hard day during my only 1-2 hour of free time, to make time so i can fix the smog
when i cleary dont even have time to do my hw!

im saying what should i do,and whos the one being unreasonable?
i cleary told my mom without yelling 100x that i WILL once i have free time.
and to all u 6gcers say that i have 14grand, and go fix the smog MONEY ISNT THE PROBLEM DUMMIES!
im talking about my TIME that i DONT have and thats the whole reason why im fighting with my mom.

dont u hate it, when u have a load of crap to do, and then someone else comes yelling to do something else?
especially when its not an emergency and theyre YELLING at you, when its not a big deal

P.S. I also started full time at a BMW dealership/business that just started, so i cant take days off right off the bat.
My mom has a depression problem due to divorce and thinks shes the queen of the world. (at restaurants when a waiter is busy, she starts cussing and starts making an attitude at the table,makes a scene just for slow service and then calls managers, e.t.c, u get the idea)
Trust me, i appreciate my mom for all shes done, but then again she does have problems and ive GONE to counseling with my mom and myself, and they ALWAYS say its her with the problem)

This post has been edited by mrgrape: Nov 5, 2008 - 7:08 PM

[Taskbot]

I understand your perspective however, if you believe she suffers from major depression confront her about it. That's probably the best solution. You probably shouldn't drag these types of threads too long though because you'll just keep digging yourself into a rut.

No matter how much you try, you cannot explain you and your mother's emotional relationship. Emotions hold a certain value that words do not and to explain something like that would come across as awkward and in your case it makes you look ungrateful.

Also, anyone who is bashing Mr Grape, put yourself in his place where your mother may be suffering from an undiagnosed mental illness. It might put things into perspective. It may sound ungrateful however don't forget that our mother's are still human beings and although they gave birth to us they are still subject to the same irrational impulses, selfishness and impatience that we all our. Giving birth should not excuse someone from criticism on the grounds of sounding ungrateful, that's just illogical.

It might sound like I blew your "problem" a bit out of proportion. I don't think your situation is that terrible, I just like to assume the worst case scenario when I assess stuff. you are just having one of those ego clashes that we all probably have with our parents.