dreams??? Options

[RUNNIN-LOW]

ok well ive been having these wierd dreams lately about a girl i use to talk to. well basicly im perfectly happy right now, im stable, have a nice girlfriend, stable job and all that stuff. but this girl ive been dreaming of is really bugging me. everysince ive been dreaming of her ive been thinking about her alot. we never got the chance to date or aything but we hung out, drank a couple times together, party with each other and even went and ate and watch movies with each other. but we never really hooked up and started dating...
so what im getting too is what do u guys think? should i look this girl up and see whats going on or just forget about it and let it be???
have anyoe on here ever had this happen to them or something close??
lets disscuss this??

[Random_Stranger]

Dreams tell us many things with an ear that listens and a heart that seeks beyond the eyes. From what I can gather, you are either content with life, very serious in your relationship, that because your life is going so well your brain is bringing up loose ends because you may question how long this shall last.

For instance, say there is a car you have really wanted, and had liked other cars. You finally get the car you want and you are very happy, although since you are very happy a part of you asks "What If?". So because you also wondered if that other car would or could have brought you the same happiness, if not more, you will focus on that since now you have already gotten what you wanted. I say do not bother contacting her, and if you must, do not try to make something of it. Just acknowledge that things are going great and you wanted to say Hi. But I do not advise it. This has happened to me before, and although that girl and I became friends, it did create little problems with me and my girlfriend at the time. Just focus on what you have and count your blessings, this of which to be thankful for.


On the other hand, if you are not happy or fear your girlfriend leaving you, then that is simply insecurity that is speaking and bringing this person up. Again, I say do not follow this, because you claim things are going well right now, insecurity is not brought on by others, this is about your self esteem which you are responsible for.


OR! Perhaps it means you will encounter this person or she has thought of you as well. What really sucks is when you dream of a "Made Up" girl and cannot stop thinking about her. That really sucks and has been happening to me lately, along with dreaming about ex girlfriends (probably because I have been single 2 going on 3 years now). Anyways, I hope this finds you well.