Starting Over Again......., Kind of hard to admit this stuff, but I ask for advice Options

[Random_Stranger]

Okay, need both the advice from a woman's perspective and men who know how to talk to girls (obviously I am tired of being shy and ready to get back out there). So I am over this whole "Ex" thing now and ready to get back out there. Naturally I am not too too aggressive, but aggressive is necessary in my city as women are not likely to just walk up and talk to you.

So I want some advice on etiquette. Is it okay to ask a chick out who you just met for the first time, let's say if you show up at her work? For instance....

Just tonight coming back from Tuner Tuesdays, I stopped off at a store to get some smokes. A girl about my age asked if I needed help. So I asked for the smokes, showed ID. Then she is like "So how are you doing tonight?" and I was like "Good" then I paused thinking "Why would she even bother talking to me? No one really does that they just ring you up and send your happy ass on your way". I am not the kind to take kindness for general interest, yet I was curious to pursue because she was pretty and had a Fat Booty (which I admit I like that* Here is where you laugh). So I asked her "How is your day?" and she was like "Good actually, and I get off work here in a bit so that is even better" and I was like "Yeah, that is good". Then she was like "Well you take care" and I said "you too" and left.

Now, normally this really doesn't happen to me. The only time it does is when I make eye contact with a girl and she smiles a lot and then we end up talking a bit before I leave. So I dunno how to read women. Was a situation like that just out of kindness? I mean, me personally, would strike up conversations with "regulars" be it man or woman, and if a girl caught my eye, then I try to talk to them. So would a woman operate the same way?

I am lost. It has been awhile (like a few years) since I have started dating (I mean seriously, not just having booty calls here and there from chicks a lil lower than your standards). Looking for something around my level (not saying that I am all that either though). I know this is a stupid thread, but I dunno who else to turn to and it is starting to be kind of a big deal for me. I mean I am 26! I am still young, but this stuff I should have down already!

You guys wanna flame me it is cool, but like I said, I really ask your thoughts.

[masterluie214]

Should have taken advatage of your situation man she alowed you in her car so that tells you right there she is not scard of you in anyway and then she got in your car that right there was your chance if i say so my self dont be scard of rejection the worst that can happen is you make a new friend dude and if she was hot like you say she was im about to start taking cool point away cause thats the 2nd time lol if you get the chance to talk to her again GET THE NUMBER (or make a new friend ) either way stop letting these things go by its like this joke i heard.

There was a priest who was stuck in the middle of the ocean and he prayed to god please save me nothing happen. few hours later a ship comes by and they ask sir do you need help the priest says no god will save me. Afew more hours later another ship comes by and asked sir please let me help you, priest says NO GOD WILL SAVE ME!. finaly the last ship came by asked the same thing please im here to save you, priest says NO! god will save me I know he will. no more ships come and the priest dies he gose to heven and sees god and he dosent understand so he asked god dear god I asked you to save me I prayed to you ...... god replys YOU IDIOT I SENT 3 SHIPS TO SAVE YOU AND YOU TURNED THEM ALL WAY LOL HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA OK I THOUGHT THAT WAS FUNNY

basicly dont pass it up