ever feel like you just cant win?, i just keep losing Options

[redtcel]

I am having the worst year. a good friend of mine dies in a car accident. i lose the best job i've ever had cause they merged with another company and shut down all retail locations. my relationship has been on the rocks for a long time. i get some really good news, my best friend in the whole world wants to start over and he is looking for a job here. well he gets a job and moves up the next day. he has really been the pinicle of strength for me as of late. i feel like i am chronically depressed and when he and i hang out i just dont care about every thing. he lost the job and has been actively looking for a new one but not soon enough. my parents asked him to leave. they didnt even ask him what was going on in his search, they just wrote him a letter. i talked to them and they said they would like to talk to him about it and maybe we could work something out. he made up his mind though. my parents really hurt his feelings. he is leaving tomorrow and i dont know what to do. i am so weak, and i hate to sound gay but him being here is the best thing that has happend to me in a very long time. and now i am losing again. i feel like i am losing every thing. my job sucks, my relationship sucks, i have no friends but him, and he isnt even going to be here any more. "i tear my heart open just to feel" that is how i feel the papa roach song says it.

roboito.

[Digndoug]

I pretty much feel ya man. it sucks. I have pretty much been in the same situation for the past year an a half. I got fired from a great paying job.. Then my bro got scrwed up hard into drugs, then my g/f an i broke up, then my bets friend, iv known him sence i was 5, started doing drug's .. and now wont call me back cause i cused him out, an nerly kicked his ass for it. SO I lost my bro, my g/f , b/f , and job.. slowly im working on my ****.. but what dosent kill ya only makes ya stronger.

[Sev408]

dude all you can do is let it roll off your shoulders. Ive been having a somewhat ****ty year myself.

ive lost 4 of my friends in car accidents with in months of eachother. my brother is moving accross the country so ill never see him again basicly. along with other **** that has happend.

only thing going right is my parents are there for me and my girl.

[Anub1s]

I really do feel for you guys here I have had many a situation to make me depressed this year as well, but you can't dwell on what the negatives are. It will hurt you and your health in the long run if you keep worrying about it (trust me I have so many stomach problems because I worry so much). Just try to forget about it and remember that we are a community, you are never friendless because all of us are here to help and to be uplifting (expect for the select few ass holes on this site that care nothing about nothing but them selves) I feel sorry for you guys and often I feel sorry for myself but it doesn't help to mope and dwell on it. Things happen in life for a reason and we have no control over it, I know it sucks but you have to deal with it.

Good luck to you guys and god bless.

[Sev408]

I really do feel for you guys here I have had many a situation to make me depressed this year as well, but you can't dwell on what the negatives are. It will hurt you and your health in the long run if you keep worrying about it (trust me I have so many stomach problems because I worry so much). Just try to forget about it and remember that we are a community, you are never friendless because all of us are here to help and to be uplifting (expect for the select few ass holes on this site that care nothing about nothing but them selves) I feel sorry for you guys and often I feel sorry for myself but it doesn't help to mope and dwell on it. Things happen in life for a reason and we have no control over it, I know it sucks but you have to deal with it.

Good luck to you guys and god bless.
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exactly just got to keep moving on. i couldnt do **** for about a week after getting the news that 3 of my best friends died in a car accident. but i had to let it pass after giong to the funeral, i payed my respects and moved on. i still remeber things that we used to laugh about and it feels good keeping them in my memories but just move on. thats the only thing you can do.