Do u let their looks....... ? Options

[BlackCelicaGT94]

whys that?

[darksecret]

It also depends on where you live, in Orlando there were good looking girls everywhere so they aren't as stuck up about image, around Charlotte though you need a friggin 6 digit income (or look like you have one, that's what most guys do around here) to get a hot one, you can treat them like crap all day long as long as you give them what they want. I personally can't stand it when a guy treats a girl like crap, i'm blunt but i'm no king s***. I will say if you stand there with your finger up your a** you'll get no where though. Look at her, give her a s*** eating grin (maybe that works for me), and just flirt a little like rockstar said it works. Also a lot of girls like the game, if she tries to lead you on play a little and give her what she wants, then when she thinks she has you wrapped let go a little and she'll come after you, it's worked for me quite a few times.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

^^^ so true so true

make us think we have u then let go a bit and we will chase you

[ILuvMyCelica95]

hmm maybe thats what im doing wrong. I don't like to lead people on, if im interested you'll know. Personally i hate all that cat and mouse ****, its a waste of time.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

I dont mean to do it - just a natural thing... I dont lead a guy on much.

I could never do what some guys ive dated do

kiss her and what not when im not really feeling her.

I can not get intimate at all with someone if im not liking ya

[darksecret]

If I don't plan on dating them I let them know prior to anything, if they stay they stay, i'm blunt so i'll let a girl know what I feel. I got busted one time lying, I played a girl for two weeks and it wasn't worth it when I got caught. They knew I screwed up and felt bad so they forgave me, i'm to old to get in the player game anyway, i'll leave it to the guys that have been practicing since they were 12, lol. Another thing is don't be arogant, if you go in with an ego, you'll most likely get shot down, go in a few more times until she can tell you'll be a regular and after 3-4 times order something you have to wait on and start a conversation up, ask a few questions (not what's your name if she has a name tag or HOW U DOIN) or make a comment/complement if she responds with more than one word you broke the ice. If you fail to break the ice then leave and try again later, if you do break the ice don't directly jump into asking her out just talk, eventually she'll trust you a little better and then you can indirectly find out if she's single. These are the first few steps into a girls pan...I mean heart, j/k.