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 Jan 19, 2006 - 12:08 PM
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 Enthusiast  Joined Jul 6, '03 From Long Beach, CA..."LBC" Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%)  |
yeah as topic says. for those in long term relationships well in relationsips in general. how do you keep that smile on your significant other?? wut do you do when things get kinda.....bleh...i just want and need your input. thanks!!!!
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Jan 19, 2006 - 12:19 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined May 22, '03 From NOVA Currently Offline Reputation: 16 (100%) |
umm lets see
we go to the drive in movies 1 time a year with the celica  dinner dates, trips to different places.... pretty much just get creative with things.. surprise her and make her sumthing, cook a really nice dinner send her flowers (www.flowers.com) ect... |
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Jan 19, 2006 - 12:38 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Sep 18, '04 From Manitoba, Canada Currently Offline Reputation: 1 (100%) |
it's hard to answer that when i have no idea what you guys already do or don't do, or what you guys are into.....
give us some background  i've been in a relationship for 4.5 years and he always keeps a smile on my face and makes me feel wonderful... but let us know some background on you guys and i'll help you out
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Jan 19, 2006 - 12:56 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Jul 6, '03 From Long Beach, CA..."LBC" Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
well been together about 7 years. we used to do everything together. movies, dinner , miniture golf, all that good stuff. well we have an eight month old son now. its kinda hard to do stuff now. im tryin but everything isnt like what it used to be. things are okay but i dont want them to be just okay i want them to be great like it used to be. its kinda hard when u done things over and over time again. just need something new!!! we used to hit the club alot but not anymore. i dunno....lets hear some suggestions
sang forgot to mention been married a lil over a year now This post has been edited by LBCxGUY: Jan 19, 2006 - 1:00 PM -------------------- |
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Jan 19, 2006 - 12:59 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Jun 29, '03 Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
Find a baby sitter and leave town for a couple days.
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Jan 19, 2006 - 1:06 PM
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Enthusiast Joined May 22, '03 From NOVA Currently Offline Reputation: 16 (100%) |
cruise.........
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Jan 19, 2006 - 1:11 PM
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my dad gives my mom flowers on my brother and i's bdays. i think thats a really good idea! i mean i know thats only a once a year thing for u but keep that in mind cuz without her youd have no children. :-D
-------------------- Cruisin down the street in my Infiniti...always lookin for my next trip to Sin City
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Jan 19, 2006 - 1:15 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Jul 6, '03 From Long Beach, CA..."LBC" Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
yeah cruise and a trip for a couple days sounds good but our budget aint big rite now. about the flowers on my son bday sounds like a great idea. imma keep that in mind. good ideas and lets hear some more. really appreaciate ur help
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Jan 19, 2006 - 1:17 PM
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meh.
be spontanious i guess? -------------------- Buy my Celica $2,500 - http://www.6gc.net/forums/index.php?showtopic=76562&st=0
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Jan 19, 2006 - 2:00 PM
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 Enthusiast Joined Jan 1, '03 From LB gizzie, cali Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
take a week off from everything and take your lady on a nice vacation..
do like a little road trip,bro... I drove my girl up north through yosemite, san francisco.. we had a blast. sight seeing is always nice i dunno... I would suggest getting away -------------------- [color=#FF0000] I MISS MY RED BABY =(
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Jan 19, 2006 - 2:19 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Mar 4, '03 From Kirkland, Washington Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
its hard to take a week vacation when you have a baby and limited funds im sure...
do ur parents or hers live close? how about droppin the baby off at the grandparents house and just having a weekend of you two? dont run errands or any of that - just relax - rent some movies make dinner for her etc u have 18 years ahead of having a child in the house - try get weekends available for you guys while you still can! :-D -------------------- Cruisin down the street in my Infiniti...always lookin for my next trip to Sin City
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Jan 19, 2006 - 2:28 PM
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Life without the kid = GOOD!!
Life with the kid= BADDD!! Basically, your screwed once you have a kid. Freedom goes bye bye to parties and what not, or that fun time alone and what not. your pretty much stuck with the kid, work, kid, sleep, and repeat, repeat, repeat, untill your kids are 18 and over then you finally get some freedom at last, but at that age of 50 or up you either dead or so old you don't feel like drag racing with some kids in there high tech equipped cars compared to your crappy EFI car. Who knows what the future holds? It was from Carb to EFI, and now its gonna be Electric. They might even have EHB....*prononuce* ebb, or Electronic Hyper Stream Boost. |
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Jan 19, 2006 - 2:29 PM
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yah I wish I could give some advice buuuut ive never really had a serious relationship so I dunno
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Jan 19, 2006 - 2:35 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Mar 4, '03 From Kirkland, Washington Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
Life with a kid is good if not better than a life without a kid. Obviously depending who you ask but you just gotta change your life a bit to be able to keep that spark between u and ur wife...just my .02
-------------------- Cruisin down the street in my Infiniti...always lookin for my next trip to Sin City
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Jan 19, 2006 - 3:04 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Sep 18, '04 From Manitoba, Canada Currently Offline Reputation: 1 (100%) |
do something totally off the wall that you know she would like but you've never done it before.
what are her passions/interests in life (besides you, of course!!;))?? make her feel like the princess she really is, just blow her away by doing something very spontaneous  i'm sure she'll love it.
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Jan 19, 2006 - 3:12 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Jul 3, '04 From Yakima, WA Currently Offline Reputation: 1 (100%) |
this might be inappropriate but i watch dr. phil sometimes, and believe it or not a good key to keeping a great relationship is to have good sex life, just for starters... but thats just what dr. phil said lol.
-------------------- the 1/4 doesnt have patience for a ST.... so we make them ST-T's so atleast we'll sound good going slow.
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Jan 19, 2006 - 3:15 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Jan 1, '03 From LB gizzie, cali Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
QUOTE(Blakout16 @ Jan 19, 2006 - 2:12 PM) [snapback]381034[/snapback] this might be inappropriate but i watch dr. phil sometimes, and believe it or not a good key to keeping a great relationship is to have good sex life, just for starters... but thats just what dr. phil said lol. .... YUP -------------------- [color=#FF0000] I MISS MY RED BABY =(
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Jan 19, 2006 - 3:16 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Jul 6, '03 From Long Beach, CA..."LBC" Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
my life with my kid is great. im happier then ever.i wake up to my lovely wife and kid every morning. i guess all the attention i use to give my wife isnt all there like it used to be. most of it goes to my son. i want to do something special for her. she is the love of my life but its not really showing rite now. i want to show her im sorry. someone told me this would happen but never thought it would. im trying now...no im doing it now slowly. i give more attention now than i did before so im workin on it. it'll take time...
sang sex life?? i do whatever it takes to get the job done!! lol... This post has been edited by LBCxGUY: Jan 19, 2006 - 3:26 PM -------------------- |
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Jan 19, 2006 - 3:23 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Mar 4, '03 From Kirkland, Washington Currently Offline Reputation: 0 (0%) |
well is she a stay at home mom?
i say take all the responsibilities from her for a weekend and send her away with a friend or her sister or something! or like i said drop the baby off with grandma and grandpa or a very close friend/sibling and have a weekend of just u two :-D -------------------- Cruisin down the street in my Infiniti...always lookin for my next trip to Sin City
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Jan 19, 2006 - 3:26 PM
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Enthusiast Joined Jul 3, '04 From Yakima, WA Currently Offline Reputation: 1 (100%) |
QUOTE(Ryu3x16 @ Jan 19, 2006 - 12:15 PM) [snapback]381037[/snapback] QUOTE(Blakout16 @ Jan 19, 2006 - 2:12 PM) [snapback]381034[/snapback] this might be inappropriate but i watch dr. phil sometimes, and believe it or not a good key to keeping a great relationship is to have good sex life, just for starters... but thats just what dr. phil said lol. .... YUP yup for inappropriate or are you agreeing to what i said? -------------------- the 1/4 doesnt have patience for a ST.... so we make them ST-T's so atleast we'll sound good going slow.
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