My woman problem..., A little advice please? Options

[bloodrain]

your young dude, live your life, enjoy being single. Just enjoy your life and someone will come along sooner or later, learn to enjoy your single life.

[creamed_corn]

Wow, this sounds pretty obvious.

There are probably several things going on here:

1. She slept with a bunch of random assholes after she left you. It probably finally caught up with her and she feels like a whore (and lets face it, she is), and now she wants to cling to the one "honest" thing she had in her life.

2. Sounds like you have money. Chicks love money, it's like 60% of how their attraction works. If I go to a bar and give the cocktail waitress 50% overhead she's pretty much begging me to party with her after work. I think this girl doesn't know how to manage her money and wants to be spoiled by you.

3. The "I want what I can't have" syndrome is kicking in. Sounds like you just don't care and are being aloof towards her. Chicks love this. it drives them crazy. Basic principle: we pursue that which retreats from us.

So... my advice? If you miss that a$s, then go get your nut off a few times... then drop that b!tch like a bad habit.

Also, I haven't read what other people have said on this thread, yet, but if lagos said something, listen to him, and if any girls said anything, ignore them. Asking a girl for advice on other girls is like asking Hitler for advice on Jews.