6gc psycologist, Its unofficial! Options

[bloodrain]

ha jason, im goin to the mall but as soon as i get back i'll give you some advice, so check the thread around 8 or 9

[JoKeRkId613]

cool. thanks man.

[bloodrain]

wow. this thread is real depressing. anyway, i would like some advice while it's still free.

im currently 19 years old. i used to be a friggin pimp in high school. now that im in college and work fulltime i find myself not having as much time as id like to dedicate to a gf. ive been working at this place for 2 years and hold a professional position and deal with fortune 500 clients all day long. i think this has grown my mentallity a lot and i find myself not enjoying the same conversations/friends that i used to back when i was in high school. i also think i lost a lot of self-esteem and confidence in myself. i try to be myself when i go out. i try to talk to girls but it's not how it used to be when i'd go out in high school because i find all girls i meet to be immature and focused on dumb ****. not to say that im focused on all the right things, but in my opinion, dumb ****. anyway, i wish i could go somewhere where they have hot chicks with dreams and goals that go to school and work or just go to school. is there such a place? ive met girls like that but they're all 30+ rich chicks but i dont believe in the whole "age aint nothin but a number" thing. i mean, i still hit the old rich chicks, but im looking for a real relationship. its been almost 2 years since my last real relationship and i kinda miss the whole relationship thing. i really dont know what to do. perhaps im approaching this the wrong way? i dunno, life is too short and i dont wanna end up alone or anything.

*sigh* im going to some strip club now to pay for some ass. jk, but its saturday night. for now, i guess i'll try to have more of an open mind and see if i find anyone interesting.

thanks.

Ah jason jason jason, if my memory serves me right the first time I saw you was when we all met up at BCC and you were like look how dirty the inside of my car is, lol. Good times, good times. Ok, now on to the important stuff. The first thing you have to realize is this, your young, just like me. Your NOT going to find the perfect girl at this age. So stop thinking your going to find her. Second after you've done the first thing I've told you, now your in the right mind set to start your search. From what you've said about your job, you take things very seriously, which is a doubled edged sword. You probably work so hard that the second you leave work, your still thinking about work, much like me. What you have to do is force yourself NOT to worry about anything, when you leave work there is nothing you can do to change anything thats going to happen, so just let things fall into place. What i've noticed is 70% of my 'despression' comes from work, while im at work I give 110% to make sure things run smoothly, the second I open the door on my celi, I put my music on and just clear my head... relax... If you try and go dating while your still worried about work, lets just say you already lost the battle, and the war isnt looking much better. So give that a shot first, Im sure you've heard the saying "work hard, play harder." So what I want you to do now is go back through both of my threads and look at the advice I gave other people, most of it will revolve around 'its all about you' and 'be happy single,' once you can accomplish that NOW your in the right position to pick up pimp status again, lol. So from what it sounds like you dont have any problems talking to girls, so what I want you to do is work on your single life and find out what makes you happy. What hobbies are fun, what sports do u enjoy watching (or playing) ect. And as always, if you give me more details I can give you more advice. And keep in mind its all just advice, whatever you want to do is up to you. And whenever your in hollywood give me a call, we'll go chill and see what trouble we cant get into, haha! Anywho, sorry about posting later than I thought, I was takin care of the misses, if you know what i mean ;-)

This post has been edited by bloodrain: Aug 19, 2006 - 9:59 PM

[JoKeRkId613]

i got ya. yea, sometimes i feel like im giving work too much effort when all the 'big boys ' in the company are a bunch of sharks anyway. thats very true though. even when im outside of work, thats most of what i think about. im going to take a small amount of focus off work and point it towards school and the tC. thanks for the advice. i guess one of the good things about ur advice is that u seem to have an answer for everything so it makes me feel as im not the only one with this issue. i dont hit up hollywood too often (i used to live there a looong time ago), but sometimes ride around pines and miramar area (pines mall, muvico24-well, that kinda davie area but w.e., you kno wut i mean). thanks man.

[IdiotStick]

Yeah, I went out tonight and I managed to get 3 phone numbers. 2 of which arent that spectacular, but one was a HOT waitress. You're **** actually worked man. I didnt give a **** and had your tips in the back of my mind the whole time.

This man speaks every bit of hte truth.


So...now that i got these numbers and im only here till friday...any other quick tips on how ot get them while im in the city? heh...since the 5 day rule doesnt apply here

[bloodrain]

like I said jason, when ur working concentrate 100% on work, the second u leave, pretend it doesnt exist anymore and I personally GAURENTEE it will help.

Yeah, I went out tonight and I managed to get 3 phone numbers. 2 of which arent that spectacular, but one was a HOT waitress. You're **** actually worked man. I didnt give a **** and had your tips in the back of my mind the whole time.

This man speaks every bit of hte truth.


So...now that i got these numbers and im only here till friday...any other quick tips on how ot get them while im in the city? heh...since the 5 day rule doesnt apply here

lol im glad it helped you out. As far as going to the next step in such a short time, give me an hour or 2 to think of it while im at the gym, this is gonna be a tough one.

This post has been edited by bloodrain: Aug 20, 2006 - 9:32 AM

[bloodrain]

ok, after much thinking, there is no LEGAL (without the use of drugs) way I could give you advice on how to get a woman to the next step. Its just something you develope over time. Theres no real pointers or advice I can give as far as getting her 'there.' But I'll try... You have to figure how to get her over your house or hers. Then you have to test her a little, see if she will let you tickle her, pinch her, nibble on her ear, or kiss her cheek. These are all good signs and psyical contact is always a plus. Make sure the mood is right, if its just a one night stand then candles arent necessary, just have the lights low, make sure shes comfortable. Again, speak slowly and in a deeper voice than normal (not Barry White, but you get the idea.) And slowly work your way to the 'unspoken' areas. Other than that theres not much advice I can think of at the moment (probably because Im tired as hell) but if I think of anything that can help you i'll let you know.

This post has been edited by bloodrain: Aug 25, 2006 - 3:53 PM

[jgreening]

This thread is an entertaining time waster. Keep up the good work Blood.

Us married guys dont really have such problems but I might think up a hypothetical or two just to keep the thread going.

[mzztoyota]

This thread is so awesome, it's getting me all riled up and making me laugh out loud all at the same time, lol...

A lot of this info seems like it would work for the hot-but-materialistic/immature girl....but a real woman....well...hmmmm

I guess it depends on the kind of girls you want. If you want them in your pocket, then go for this, lol.

If you want a girl who will appreciate and understand that your car is important to you and will even help you mod it, etc., without getting jealous, you need a real 6GC.net girl! lol...

I've dated my share of car buffs, and I can totally dig it now (though it was rough the first time, but once his 'crew' made it obvious that they thought I was cool and that they didn't mind teaching me what they knew, it was all gravy)....

but gamers, ugh, I still can't put up with that addiction. Casual play and nights out with the boys, sure, but when you'd rather play online RPG's than get out on a Friday night...or at least watch Comedy Central with me...we have problems...

at least car buffs want to go out and DRIVE, lol...and I love helping out on weekend projects...

[IdiotStick]

Good thing I dropped my gamer addiction a few years ago, right? haha

[bloodrain]

haha, ya gamers are in a league of there own. I actually started talking to this girl back in high school (while I broke my own "code of conduct" by asking the 'interview' questions) I asked what do you do for fun, and she said I play Everquest alot. With that I decided she wasnt right for me, lol. Anywho guys im back from Las Vegas (holy crap I had fun) anywho if there are any questions, real or hypothetical, i'll be more than happy to answer.

[IdiotStick]

oh, im takin that hot waitress out tonight

My last night in TO to boot

[bloodrain]

haha good job stick, remember, dont spend alot of money, and invite her in for some coffee. OR try this (granted you know how to cook) When you pick her up tell her "change of plans, I decided to make dinner" and get a good movie, you should be good as gold. Just keep your confidence up and make sure you know "shes lucky to be with you" not the other way around. Anywho, im glad my teachings have paid off.

[IdiotStick]

I can cook...but not in a hotel room. haha

I'l just get her drunk and bring her back

Seriously though, I got this.

[bloodrain]

sooooo how'd last night go?

[neKronos]

I can cook...but not in a hotel room. haha

I'l just get her drunk and bring her back

Seriously though, I got this.

Thats class right there.

[mzztoyota]

I can cook...but not in a hotel room. haha

I'l just get her drunk and bring her back

Seriously though, I got this.

Thats class right there.

Hey, my kind of date!

[neKronos]

I can cook...but not in a hotel room. haha

I'l just get her drunk and bring her back

Seriously though, I got this.

Thats class right there.

Hey, my kind of date!

So if im ever in that area of the caribbean you wanna go get some drinks? Im sure that puerto rican rum is pretty cheap over there.

[JoKeRkId613]

hey bloodrain. ORLANDO MEET THIS FRIDAY. YOU BETTER GO!

[mzztoyota]

puerto rican rum? No, man, here it is all about the

CRUZAN RUM!!!

(look it up )