Need some opinions...., I guess there's a first time for everything.... Options

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Ok, you guys and gals are fam, so I figured I'd vent and get some opinions here.

Went to a buddy's house for his b-day party(it was all day and night). He turned 40 and had all kinds of family and friends come over(along with some mutual friends). One of his nieces was there and we kind of hit it off all day. By 630pm all the older family members left so the party got a little wilder. I took her to bed around 9 and had a bedroom dance going on. Got woken up after a lil 15min nap by 2 friends I hadn't seen in 2yrs at around midnight......

Side note.... She had been asking her uncle(my buddy) whether I was a good guy or whether I was going to "play her face" during the day and asked for advice from her brother's g/f. They told her the truth, I am an a-double snake-hole but am honest, upfront, forward, loyal(when in a relationship), and sweet(to those close to me). Also, I found out that the niece lives only like 10 mins from where I'm staying at the moment(the party was about 2 hrs drive from where Im staying). Also, the niece was steady saying, "you won't even remember my name or who I am if I get your number but I want it anyways." End side note.

I got up and hit the keg again and tons of shots with my friends I hadn't seen in a while.(At this point the niece is still sleeping in the room) At this point the party had dwindled to only about 9 of us not counting the sleeping lady. I went for a bathroom break and as I finished washing my hands, the door opened suddenly and I was pushed into the shower by two 19 yr old ladies and it went from there. Anyways, that all finished a while later and then one of the 19yr old's bro was ready to go and he took both of them home.

Side note #2.... None of the birthday boy's family was at the party by the time I got woken up by the friends I hadn't seen in 2yrs other than my friend and the niece. End side note #2.

After another hour or so of partying the niece woke up and decided to hang out. At this point there are only 6 of us. One of the friends left and we were more in chill mode and hanging other than partying.

I had to leave at like 5am because I had a meeting for business about an hr and a half on the other side of where I am currently staying, so about a 3.5hr drive. I gave the niece my number because she asked for it. I went to my meeting and all that jazz. After the meeting on Sunday(a week ago) she texted me and we texted for a while just talking. Monday, work work and more work for me but we were still texting all day. My night work didn't end until 1am Monday/Tuesday morning. She works 715-415. Tuesday she was supposed to go out of town for some learning thing for her work, but she wasn't driving and wanted me to come over after work Monday night/Tuesday morning. So I did.

We learned a lot about each other and have a lot in common. We talked for hours about anything and everything without skipping a beat and never running out of stuff to talk about. I told her, when it's time I have to leave just to let me know. We ended up having some more fun again that night, talked some more and then she let me know that she needed to get to bed and stuff so I took that as the sign to go, but asked just for reconfirmation to be the nice guy. She said yeah, so I left.

We texted all day Tuesday(her initiating all texting btw from the get go). She had told me she has no b/f and it appeared so from her apt. We texted Wednesday as well. Then it all stopped, no texts no communication at all. I sent her a text on Friday and got no response. I have tried not bothering her, but this has been kinda bothering me quite a bit. I really like this girl(for her, not the fact that we had bedroom time cuz bedroom time is easy to get). Ive never had anyone just fall off the face of the earth before and never been played before. Did I just get played or am I over thinking things? We are really compatible. Hit me up with opinions. This is just frustrating and has been bothering me a bit.