NEED alarm help, put what in where now? Options

[Hanyo]

Hey everyone.
I'm gonna get the alarm in the mail soon and i want to know what wires i need to tap into.

My 1st question is: where do u guys drill the hole for the red blinking light? i want a place where it wont affect my car much if the alarm burns out.

2: do i need a diode for the alarms un/lock door wires. (so when i'm in the car and i push the button to lock the doors it wont burn my alarm) yup i have power locks already. the box says"Door Locks & Parking lights Built-In Relays"

3: the brake light thing. i was reading a post b4 and it mentioned a wire at the tail-light fusebox. where is that? and how do i attach that?

4: what wire (color and location) is the parking light relay, so the lights blink 4 the alarm.

5: this alarm has remote start. the box says "Built-In Start Relays,Accessories,Ignition,Starter Outputs" so what wires do i need to play with ( coomer?) yea i never did this remote start installation b4. and dont worry i have an automatic tranny.

6. I'm thinking about installing a proximity senor with this car. so i can leave my windows down while its infront of my house. where should i mount it?

well that is about it. thanks in advance. i just need to know what these wires look like and where they are at.