Asking girl out Options

[Davesceli]

Whats the best way to ask a stranger out. Theres this girl at this store that i want to ask out, but i'm not sure the best way to go about it.

I think asking her out to dinner is too much, too soon. What should i do???

Thanks

[tonytutino]

lol random

well if you've had some form of communication prior to this, thats a start.
girls are all about the confidence so i'd go for it and ask her dude.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

If uve had prior communication then while ur talking with her as normal just be like hey what are you doing tonight? wanna grab somethign to eat?

i would say keep it casual the first time around cuz you dont wanna waste any money if you find out that ur not compatible. then take her to red robin or something and if u click then ask her out to somewhere nicer the second time around

[MaskedMan]

yes, confidence ftw.

[Supersprynt]

sure fire way of getting girls: be a dick.

[ILuvMyCelica95]

sure fire way of getting girls: be a dick.

oh the ladies must love you then Erik

BA ZING!



what do you mean by a girl in a store- you went to a store and she works there? have you ever actually talked to her? hmm?

[devilsden97]

have u spoken to her prior? other then "whre is said product in the store?" ?

u dont wanna come off like a wierdo creep/stalker, by asking to go out.

maybe ask her when her lunch break is, and possibly offer to take her out for lunch?

idk.
good luck tho either way.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

id hate if a guy asked me out on my lunch break cuz i hate my work clothes. id rather be asked out for a time thats after im off work so i can go home and change and get all hot looking for a date :-)

[Supersprynt]

sure fire way of getting girls: be a dick.

oh the ladies must love you then Erik

BA ZING!

Oh I think you already know the answer to that.

This post has been edited by Supersprynt: Mar 19, 2007 - 12:16 PM

[vsideboy]

if you've never spoken then just ask her opinion on something mate, the more random the better!

a big NO to the asking out for dinner thing, only do that if you've been seeing the girl for along time, never make that the first thing you say she'll run a mile.

[ILuvMyCelica95]

sure fire way of getting girls: be a dick.

oh the ladies must love you then Erik

BA ZING!

Oh I think you already know the answer to that.

hmmm.

[SlickRick]

first off, as cliche as this may sound, be yourself, talk 2 her and ask her open ended questions that give her a chance 2 tell you about herself. then once u have talked a little bit and can gauge her interest, see if she seems interested, if so, get her number then ask her out over the phone. its seems kinda weird 2 ask a girl out and u dont even have her phone number. just popping into work and askeing her out says STALKER!! lol good luck!

oh and make sure 2 pick her up in the Celica, that will seal the deal!!!

This post has been edited by SlickRick: Mar 19, 2007 - 1:49 PM

[cnelson]

just be like.. "i have a 6 gen toyota celica" than her draw will drop, and you'll be like.. "want to see it?" and she'll say yes. If this doesn't happen chances are you shouldn't want to go out with her. lol. jk.

Just be confindent.

[Supersprynt]

Just be straight forward: "Hey, my names <insert name> and I've noticed you a couple times before, would you like chill sometime?"

[P5ycho]

Just be straight forward: "Hey, my names <insert name> and I've noticed you a couple times before, would you like chill sometime?

good idea, strait to the point but it has a flaw,
its puttin her on the spot, which i'm sure she wudn't like, and most likly she gets embarased and says no...
u wanna be a little more subtle than that,

[devilsden97]

Just be straight forward: "Hey, my names <insert name> and I've noticed you a couple times before, would you like chill sometime?

good idea, strait to the point but it has a flaw,
its puttin her on the spot, which i'm sure she wudn't like, and most likly she gets embarased and says no...
u wanna be a little more subtle than that,

"hi my names <insert name>, ive stalked u a few times from the soda aisle, and i was wondering if i could smell your hair?....No? oh...well, I'll be outside in my van waiting for you to come out later tonight."

LOL

sorry

in response to natalie:

id ask her out on lunch for 2 reasons:

1) it sets the "date" for a short period of time, so if she ends up sucking, u can leave, and if she doesnt dig u, she can leave, and it wont be all like "HOW DO I GET OUT OF THIS!?"

2) if she feels awkward in her work clothing, most likly any dude would feel awkward asking some chick out at her job, so...if u both feel slightly awkward it cant be all that bad...good for a laugh at least.

[BlackCelicaGT94]

id still pass on the work lunch. plus if she works at a store she gets 30 mins. i think u need an hour to know if you can get along with someone or not.

[Hanyo]

use the search function!

search for pick-up lines. there is a bunch of great lines in that thread. =)

[Davesceli]

sure fire way of getting girls: be a dick.

oh the ladies must love you then Erik

BA ZING!



what do you mean by a girl in a store- you went to a store and she works there? have you ever actually talked to her? hmm?

Thats the thing...the only communication we had was talking a little while she was ringing me up, did find out we went to the same elementary school. Im not used to asking someone out i don't know at all.

She works at the sunglass hut...if that makes a difference.

This post has been edited by Davesceli: Mar 19, 2007 - 9:42 PM

[devilsden97]

Thats the thing...the only communication we had was talking a little while she was ringing me up, did find out we went to the same elementary school. Im not used to asking someone out i don't know at all.

She works at the sunglass hut...if that makes a difference.

i got it.... you are blue she is pinkish color

you: "hi....so since when do u work here? Didnt we go to the same elementary school?"
her: "uh...i think we went over this before when u were in here buying sunglasses."

if that doesnt break the ice....add:

you: "my eyes are sensative...like my heart." (insert smile/your own ha ha thing)

^ment to be corney, to break the ice

you: "yeah i know that was lame, but i was wondering if ud like to go out sometime?"

DISREGUARD FROM THIS POINT ON...READ ON FOR A LAUGH

her: "sure....pick me up friday at 11...i get off of work at 9...see u then in your sick whip. By the way, who taught you those fly ass pick up lines?"
You: "dems pick up lines is from dat sick migga devilsden97, on the best celica site on the net....6gc.net."

idk what that all is but i found it entertaining


edit: added color coding....and good luck man...seriously tho..you only live once, and its only a chick...whats the worst that could happen? she says no...u tell her her sun glasses suck, and move on. U hardly know her, so its not a HUGE loss.

This post has been edited by devilsden97: Mar 19, 2007 - 9:52 PM

[97lestyousay]

Who was the red person^^^

[devilsden97]

Who was the red person^^^

red was the inner migga coming out... lol

[Davesceli]

Thats the thing...the only communication we had was talking a little while she was ringing me up, did find out we went to the same elementary school. Im not used to asking someone out i don't know at all.

She works at the sunglass hut...if that makes a difference.

i got it.... you are blue she is pinkish color

you: "hi....so since when do u work here? Didnt we go to the same elementary school?"
her: "uh...i think we went over this before when u were in here buying sunglasses."

if that doesnt break the ice....add:

you: "my eyes are sensative...like my heart." (insert smile/your own ha ha thing)

^ment to be corney, to break the ice

you: "yeah i know that was lame, but i was wondering if ud like to go out sometime?"

DISREGUARD FROM THIS POINT ON...READ ON FOR A LAUGH

her: "sure....pick me up friday at 11...i get off of work at 9...see u then in your sick whip. By the way, who taught you those fly ass pick up lines?"
You: "dems pick up lines is from dat sick migga devilsden97, on the best celica site on the net....6gc.net."

idk what that all is but i found it entertaining


edit: added color coding....and good luck man...seriously tho..you only live once, and its only a chick...whats the worst that could happen? she says no...u tell her her sun glasses suck, and move on. U hardly know her, so its not a HUGE loss.

I think i might do that...i like the sick whip part the best!!

but please keep the advise coming im open to anything.

[FreddyTheOthaMea...]

You could always use those three special words that gets any womans attention... "I am rich"

[Negative]

I think the car will give that away.

[Toyoca]

"ey yo girl" thats my line, its all about how you voice it though

[hurley97]

^ thats hot, I'd "ey yo boy" back at you



go in and say you need her help to pick out sunglasses for someone special. try on a few, have her try on a few, ask her which ones she likes, make her laugh a little... this way you get to spend a bit more time with her than her just cashing you out... then after you buy them give them to her.

now you have options from there, you can either ask her out right then or be really mysterious about it and just leave lol

[Negative]

Damn, Cireno [MSP] over here. Nice one Hurley.

[Manny]

Its real simple... first get yourself some rope, chloroform and a motel where they dont ask questions.... oh wait.. nevermind..... forget that...

If you want to get to know this girl, but are affraid of making her uncomfortable, dont ask her out on a date. Invite her to a party, or some other social gathering... just pop in and say.. " hey... remember me.. :-), some frineds are having a party this friday and I'd like to invite you. Give her the time and address, and your cell number ( in case she gets lost)

(She may have a boyfriend, and will want to bring him along, dont be a dick, and let her bring him)

(If no boyfriend then)

If she shows, theres 1 point for you.... the only risk you run, is her hookin up with someone else.... but hey, if that happens, then she wasnt into you anyway.
At least there will be other girls at the party for you to talk to as well.

Hopefully, by the end of the night, everyone had a good time, and no one feels awkward.

[devilsden97]

I have to say i like Steff's idea, its pretty cool.

[ILuvMyCelica95]

wear a low cut shirt and lean on the counter... no wait. that's not gunna work.

People are making this way too complicated.

Just go talk to her. You may find out she’s not your type just from conversation. Don't listen to Miguel idk what the hell that insane dialogue was.

Just start a conversation, small talk. Then if you'd like to hang out with her not surrounded by sunglasses give her your number. The end. If she's interested she'll call. Giving her the # is good because your not asking her right on the spot. Let her think about if she really wants to.
If she doesn’t call go in there and step on some glasses.

/ my magnificent advice.

[j0e_p3t]

steff is a genius

[hurley97]

lol thanks guys

I'm a girl and I work with customers so I know whats its like to get hit on and asked out while at work. I always say no because I have a boyfriend but if I didn't I know what might work on me and what definitely doesn't work. if you just go up and ask her out without establishing some kind of chemistry first she'll most likely go with no as an answer

[bufferdan]

"sup girl sup" always works

[Supersprynt]

People are making this way too complicated.

This is the 6gc way.

I have an idea, why dont you thorw a couple coins in the ol' jukebox and sing Foxy Lady to her.

This post has been edited by Supersprynt: Mar 20, 2007 - 3:01 PM

[ILuvMyCelica95]

Steff- why would he buy her sunglasses she works in a sunglasses store...she prob get a discount, or at least id think so. IMO if someone came to my job and bought me something i'm surrounded by all day and get a discount on i'd be like wtf creepy. and using the term someone special would freak me out too.

the fact that we are spending so much time on this is scary. You should send her a link to this thread and be like which one will get my in your pants?

lmao

insanity

[Negative]

[devilsden97]

Steff- why would he buy her sunglasses she works in a sunglasses store...she prob get a discount, or at least id think so. IMO if someone came to my job and bought me something i'm surrounded by all day and get a discount on i'd be like wtf creepy. and using the term someone special would freak me out too.

the fact that we are spending so much time on this is scary. You should send her a link to this thread and be like which one will get my in your pants?

lmao

insanity

OMG DUDE~! TRY THAT !

[BlackCelicaGT94]

What has worked on me at stores was when a guy would be like

make some small talk then when him or i bring up something that were both interested in like a movie we both want to see or something then he should be like "oh we totally should see that" and then play it off and then right before he leaves he should say "ya know i was serious about seeing that movie." and when she says "oh yeah? me too" he can say 'oh yeah? cool. Why dont you call or text me tonight and we will figure out a time that works" so then i could text him later and maybe start a conversation and find out more about him that night.

and any guy that comes up to me and cant speak proper english and says things like "ay yo girl" or "how it be" "what it do" etc. Will get the big F YOU! AND LEARN TO SPEAK! from me. oh and if theier jeans are hanging half way down their thighs. yeah not going to work. Show some respect when you want to get to know me.

This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Mar 20, 2007 - 4:22 PM

[hurley97]

Steff- why would he buy her sunglasses she works in a sunglasses store...she prob get a discount, or at least id think so. IMO if someone came to my job and bought me something i'm surrounded by all day and get a discount on i'd be like wtf creepy. and using the term someone special would freak me out too.

the fact that we are spending so much time on this is scary. You should send her a link to this thread and be like which one will get my in your pants?

lmao

insanity

it would just be cute. you have to look at it beyond just buying her sunglasses.... it all depends on what kind of girl you're talking to I guess

but yeah, thats a much better idea Tina lol

[Batman722]

just whip out the goods

[Davesceli]

damn...shoulda thought of that earlier

[Batman722]

na just kidding

I have no real advise for you other than step up to the plate, do what you gotta do, overcome the fear, and just do it.

other than that, if she wants to hook up with you, most of the time it won't matter how you do it.

[vsideboy]

THE WORST THING TO DO:-

is to think about it and ask everyone for advice. Just go and get it over with, you'll probably find it goes well.

[Consynx]

when talking slip it in

talk about movies if ya can...
then pull a hey, u wanna go see that new movie _____.
...it's not hard, it's getting to the talking that is usually hard.
how do u spark up a "normal" convo w/ a girl that u've only seen across the way...no clue what she is like n such.

[Mynzeyes]

Give her your dick in a box.

[95CelicaST]

Give her your dick in a box.