Celi Vs. Celi (My gf and my car!) Options

[tranthecelicaman]

Ok so my girlfriend Celi is taking all my time away from my other Celi..hehe the celica
ive got like nothing done to my car lately cuz i have to do everything with Celi
i see her every single day, and i work..so i have no timew for my car then
she gets mad at me if i want to spen one day working on my car
she made me delete my myspace cuz i was talking to girls...girls that are just friends!
i just ended up making a new one a few days ago but im just adding people with .into celicas cuz thats mostly what i used myspace for b4 anyways, but she didnt believe me.
we have been together for 5 YEARS! so i definitely dont wanna flush 5 years of my life down the drain
BUT NOW!!! SHE SAYS SHE WILL BREAK UP WITH ME OF I DONT TAKE HER TO THE CELICA MEET!
omggg, she gunna be a bitch and want my attention 98% of the time, but the onyl reson i cwould be theere is for the cars and to hang out with some friends i havnt seen in a few years!!!!
ahhhhhhhhhhhhh im ready to explode idk what the F*CK to do!!!!!!!
HELP!!!

This post has been edited by tranthecelicaman: Jul 18, 2006 - 2:37 AM

[hurley97]

sound like my previous relationship. only i was in almost the same situation as you and im the girl lol

we were together 3 years, i just broke up with him in the beginning of may. it was three years of me trying to make him happy and thinking i was just as happy. i finally realized i wasnt happy because i wasnt doing anything for myself anymore. i was only 16 when we started going out and he was 17 and we were so sure we'd get married for the longest time (he still says he would if i wanted to). we also spent everyday together and when id say i was going out with 'just the girls' hed get all offended and upset so i didnt anymore and my friends were pissed off to say the least. im just glad they understood and were there for me when we broke up.

i was always saying to myself when i felt unhappy "why am i going to break up with him after soo long? id just be looking for what we already have" meaning the comfort and history of the relationship. after breaking up with him and finally doing things for myself, ive been happier than i have in years. its a little scary when your so sure of something for so long then you start having doubts...you may disagree with me but i just think before you go buy a ring you need to step back and think about everything long and hard

i have loads more that i can say but i wont bore everyone with my story lol
but if you want to talk to me on aim your welcome to, i cant tell you what decisions to make but i can offer my experience and maybe it'll be of some help